Little Acons – No. 3

BECAUSE ISAID SO

A series of memes which encapsulates the mind set of the narcissistic parent towards their child resulting in the creation of the Adult Child of a Narcissist.

6 thoughts on “Little Acons – No. 3

  1. narc affair says:

    I think even nonnarc parents have said this when their kids question them but narc parents are extreme in expecting their children to go along with everything and see things their way at all times.

  2. Suzie says:

    How about I will ring your neck, break your neck,beat you black and blue or if you don’t behave in the car I will throw you out alongside the road. Or Ok kids we are going to the DMV I expect that you line up against the wall there and do not say a word if you do you can just stay there for the rest of your life because when I’m finished I’m going home with or without you.We all marched in like little soldiers and sat against the wall. None of us said a word. The people there never saw such “Well behaved little children”. AMAZING!!!!

    1. narc affair says:

      Suzie…so sad. Thats terrible verbal abuse. I was fortunate to not experience this part of narcissism.

  3. Jennifer says:

    My narc, would say and scream (his face contorting in rage like this guy many times…so frightening and horrible…irrational and insane and smearing me who never even swore or yelled or name called, saying I was a psycho girlfriend in early days because I’d speak up to him on his boundary violations toward me) this yes amd in nine years I never acted in a retaliative or similarly irrational way to any of his antic, instead I stove so hard to provide an example of what was a healthy, respectful communication and relationship practise, hoping he might then feel safe, recognize his outlandish behaviour, and feel he could behave better. He went so far as to say…” Do as I say, or else” he would declare he didn’t have to do anything he didn’t want, certainly not negotiate or compromise or talk something out, certainly not listen to me and if I didn’t jump to claim his opinion, advise or succumb to his demands and command, he’d sing his constant hard done by victim mantra about how ( I was so terrible because I maintained a good portion of my own identity, inner voice, etc) I didn’t listen and never listen, while he in his entitled bumble dismissed the majority of what I had to say or raged, punished and terrified me into submissive silence and ill health manifesting in extreme home clutter, weight gain, Ina I lite to make decisions, cope with the craziness, my emotions concerning it, lessening functioning in daily life, multiple triggers, intrusive memories, nightmares, and other ailments. All must be deferred to him, so he in his majestic importance can make the decision on everything big and small ie where going, when, if can hug, have sex, kiss, drink a can of pop from his fridge ( yes I asked even after nine years!). He of course made continual promises year after year, some the same that never occurred while he lectured and ranted about me not following through and getting my shit together!!!!. He didn’t keep his promises and was completely entitled to break them. He informed me he had good integrity and morals too, by the way lol !

  4. My mothers favorite line, HG. Another one was, I will beat you to a bloody pulp. Hilarious!

  5. thepianist20 says:

    Narc Mom : “Sit in the living room to watch the maid!”

    Me : “Why?”

    Narc Mom : “BECAUSE I SAID SO!!!”

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