Little Acons – No. 13
A series of memes which encapsulates the mind set of the narcissistic parent towards their child resulting in the creation of the Adult Child of a Narcissist.
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It is a meme Sarah.
This is so very true.
I never actually heard this one, but I constantly got its cousin, “I’m just trying to help you so other people won’t make fun of you.” This relating to my actions, clothing choices, future plans, etc.
I remember when I was leaving for my first job interview after I’d graduated university. My mother went hysterical over the shoes I was wearing. She begged me to change my shoes. “No one would ever hire someone wearing shoes like that! You look like a prostitute!” You can imagine what that did to my confidence heading out to my very first job interview.
And of course it was entirely bogus (3″ heels with a business suit for an office job in exports at Fruit of the Loom). I got the job. My future supervisor told me afterwards that she hired me because I could answer her questions in both French and Spanish. I asked her if she felt I had been dressed appropriately and she said she had thought I looked very professional. One more reason I never trusted anything my mother said to me.
Test,test. I have some technical problems to comment. Anyone else too?
Mona
If you’re referring to word press, mine has. Even acting squirrely too.
Thank you, windstorm. It is crazy making. If I want to comment, narcsite breaks down. Not all the time, but very often.
Mona
I had that same problem. As I would be typing a reply, it would just shut down and I’d lose what I typed. I got around that by typing my comments as notes in my phone, then copy and paste into the website. If it shuts down, I haven’t lost anything.
Me too, Mona.
When I submit a comment and it says “Submitting comment…” and then I see my comment in the thread with “Awaiting moderation” phrase, I know it was sent successfully.
When I submit a comment and it just disappears, I know it wasn’t sent at all. Half of my comments go in this way. I contacted WordPress team and then talked with Tudor about it, but that technical problem wasn’t resolved. It seems it is impossible to resolve it at all.
Initially, I retyped my comments and sent them again, but then I stopped to do it. I was like “Hell with my comments. Anyway, they aren’t something super-important. Moreover, many girls expresses the same opinion. No need to repeat it”. Lol.
P.S. I will laugh hard, if this comment won’t be submitted.
Dear Noname,
I think your comments are very super-important, as with every other comment and I love reading them!
Most sincerely
You give me a lot of credit, Sillyolperson. Lol.
BTW, it seems ALL of my comments are submitted successfully today.
Dear Noname,
You are worthy of credit!
I’m glad your comments have been successful.
💜
Dear Mona,
I’ve had no comments since last Thursday. Perhaps Mr Tudor has been relaxing on the French Riviera researching new sources!
This could be used in any narc relationship. My narcs become just that and i see it as a huge mistake on my part. They are so good at becoming so integral you isolate yourself and soon its true they are your only friend.