The Igniters of Fury – No. 1
A series that allows you to understand what are the different things that you do which are likely to ignite the fury of a narcissist. Keep in mind that different schools of narcissists have different levels of control over their fury. Use this information to understand why you have been treated to heated or cold fury and to use this information to further your own position post escape.
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Hg thank you so much for this but this series. Now I know why he know why he freaked out at me. I served him last
You are welcome Candice.
A few tidbits of etiquette: When everyone at the table receives their food, say grace and then begin eating. No one eats until all are sitting and have their food. It seems that receiving your food last in this case means your food has more guarantee of being hot or warm, therefore it is an honor to be last. The same honor of last sometimes applies to parades too. Honor can only be earned. If served family style with all dishes on the table, say grace and the head of household is served first or the platters/bowls are passed to the head of household first. If small children are at the table, the head of household serves the children’s plates and then their own. Reasons for the children served first are obvious. One last detail: When it is obvious that the same etiquette has not been taught, wait and take cues from the people at the table. They have there own set of rules that give them comfort. Dignity is understanding the reasons for etiquette/social rules and abiding by the culture where you are a guest. Dignity is understanding that even in your own family, each/everyone are in many ways guests. Dignity gives everyone their own place/position and does not forget or deny that each place is just as important.
And no one dare touch the leftovers from yesterday. They are mine. If you do, you will pay.
This is one id never think of as offending a someone as it seems so petty but we are talking a narcissist.