Once I used dad’s debit card to buy food from Taco Bell, bcuz my mommy dearest narc mom was too lazy to cook,, so after coming home, dad asked me why did I spend a lot of money(it was only a 6-7$ bill) and then he told me not to buy stuff from his card ever!
To add to the story, I went to a Yamaha service store the next day to get my electronic piano fixed (it was 6 years old) and dad felt insulted cuz I chose to pay for it and henceforth went into a narcissistic fury!
What is so funny about your statement is I had an ex bestfriend who is a borderline say something like that to me when I was in my early 20s – but she wasn’t saying it in a nice way lol.
The truth is that it was okay for her to sleep with people behind my back and have no care in the world for my feelings but after years of not speaking and her being a terrible friend I couldn’t hook up or be with a guy she had a crush on mind you i think she had a boyfriend at the time and we hadn’t spoken in so long. It’s amazing how I actually felt terrible about being with that guy she had a crush on from the past but she could do things like that to me all she wanted. She had done so many things behind my back and never apologized.
Oh, and she was allowed to use me when it was convenient for her and I had to sit there and take it when she would go on her angry rants that were completely unprovoked and say the nastiest things you wouldn’t say to your enemy.
I honestly look back and think to myself : “How the hell did I put up with this shit?”
I really don’t know how I tolerated that crap. I mean it’s not like I listened to him when he would throw these fits but holy shit over the dumbest shit. Everything was a fucking fight.
Every word, movement, breath…lead to some kind of battle.
That was insanely irritating, I remember my ex would get angry at me for spending my own money on food or clothing or whatever. I remember we were walking to some street fair near his place and as we were walking there he was like “you can only get 1 (whatever food it was).” I looked at him like he had 2 heads lol.
It’s my money. I’ll do what I want. No one can tell how how many whatever the hell thingies I am going to buy or eat have when I’m the one paying.
Hell no.
HELLLLL NO.
It’s insanely controlling and so unnecessary.
He would try to control how many tissues I would use. “You don’t understand because you don’t pay for them.”
He would try to control what drink I wanted. He would get mad if I didn’t want the drink that he wanted me to have and throw a fucking fit.
My nex: “I want that cookie” Me: “No, it is expensive beyond reason” Nex: “But we have your meal card” (five minutes later) Me: “I really need to get lunch, it is almost four pm” Nex : “No, we are going for drinks later and your card has a daily limit”. But how could I not see back then he was a Narc!!!!!
Yeah, WTAF is that??!!!
One the one hand, it is toddler behavior.
On the other it is abusive in the extreme.!
I know……
Entitlement, no conscience.ownership of your appliances and their residual benefits
I’m getting it,…bits at a time….
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I’m dancing around don’t mind me lol…..
For all the lies you told this is what you owe….
::bopping up and down in my chair::
LMAO
…..Revenge is better than money you’ll seeeeeeee…..
okay, I swear I’m done lmao.
Once I used dad’s debit card to buy food from Taco Bell, bcuz my mommy dearest narc mom was too lazy to cook,, so after coming home, dad asked me why did I spend a lot of money(it was only a 6-7$ bill) and then he told me not to buy stuff from his card ever!
I was like “whatever!!” :/
Wild. I am going to keep my eye on you!
In a good way or a bad way?
To add to the story, I went to a Yamaha service store the next day to get my electronic piano fixed (it was 6 years old) and dad felt insulted cuz I chose to pay for it and henceforth went into a narcissistic fury!
I was calm as a brook.
(I WON of course!)
In a humorous way.
By the way, thank you HG. I am wild in a way 😉
Grrr.
😉
Dr Q,
Can I hire you to put your righteously indignant voice of reason in my head all the time?
Perse
I would do it for free. 😁
You say the sweetest things ❤️😁!
Doc,
Thank you very much, I could sure use it to kickstart my “bad self”! And thank you very much for the compliment.
Perse
Perse, Queen of Hell,
It need to be said – I find your name sexy as hell. ::claps::
What is so funny about your statement is I had an ex bestfriend who is a borderline say something like that to me when I was in my early 20s – but she wasn’t saying it in a nice way lol.
The truth is that it was okay for her to sleep with people behind my back and have no care in the world for my feelings but after years of not speaking and her being a terrible friend I couldn’t hook up or be with a guy she had a crush on mind you i think she had a boyfriend at the time and we hadn’t spoken in so long. It’s amazing how I actually felt terrible about being with that guy she had a crush on from the past but she could do things like that to me all she wanted. She had done so many things behind my back and never apologized.
Oh, and she was allowed to use me when it was convenient for her and I had to sit there and take it when she would go on her angry rants that were completely unprovoked and say the nastiest things you wouldn’t say to your enemy.
Nah- I cut that bitch lose. Bye bitch.
I honestly look back and think to myself : “How the hell did I put up with this shit?”
I really don’t know how I tolerated that crap. I mean it’s not like I listened to him when he would throw these fits but holy shit over the dumbest shit. Everything was a fucking fight.
Every word, movement, breath…lead to some kind of battle.
That was insanely irritating, I remember my ex would get angry at me for spending my own money on food or clothing or whatever. I remember we were walking to some street fair near his place and as we were walking there he was like “you can only get 1 (whatever food it was).” I looked at him like he had 2 heads lol.
It’s my money. I’ll do what I want. No one can tell how how many whatever the hell thingies I am going to buy or eat have when I’m the one paying.
Hell no.
HELLLLL NO.
It’s insanely controlling and so unnecessary.
He would try to control how many tissues I would use. “You don’t understand because you don’t pay for them.”
He would try to control what drink I wanted. He would get mad if I didn’t want the drink that he wanted me to have and throw a fucking fit.
My nex: “I want that cookie” Me: “No, it is expensive beyond reason” Nex: “But we have your meal card” (five minutes later) Me: “I really need to get lunch, it is almost four pm” Nex : “No, we are going for drinks later and your card has a daily limit”. But how could I not see back then he was a Narc!!!!!
HG, Does this mean they are furious if we spend OUR own money or their money ?
Your money is our money, so both.
Ha ha ha…
Yeah, WTAF is that??!!!
One the one hand, it is toddler behavior.
On the other it is abusive in the extreme.!
I know……
Entitlement, no conscience.ownership of your appliances and their residual benefits
I’m getting it,…bits at a time….