Ah yes… she sought fuel off of every relationship I’ve had. First she was all sugar and spice, then she watched from the sidelines, sniffing for conflict so she could subtly gloat, and/or triangulated if nothing interesting was going on. I always felt the need to protect my relationships from her, instinctively I suppose. She must have hated it.
Of course, none of my partners was good/rich/handsome enough.
HG, can this be done by the narcissistic parent by pointing out how the ACON”s spouse is not good enough (and other “flaws”) and does not deserve the ACON and that the ACON can do a lot better?
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Ah yes… she sought fuel off of every relationship I’ve had. First she was all sugar and spice, then she watched from the sidelines, sniffing for conflict so she could subtly gloat, and/or triangulated if nothing interesting was going on. I always felt the need to protect my relationships from her, instinctively I suppose. She must have hated it.
Of course, none of my partners was good/rich/handsome enough.
My mother in law unknowingly does this. I dont think shed set out to ruin our marriage but she does deliberately triangulate us.
He tried. He failed. Knowledge is power. Thanks HG.
Pleasure.
You have to be married to have the power to mess up a marriage!
Ha ha, interesting point.
I don’t get this one. The narc will mess snip the marriage of their children?
Yes, interfere in the adult child’s marriage because the narcissist feels their control is being eroded by the ACON’s spouse.
HG, can this be done by the narcissistic parent by pointing out how the ACON”s spouse is not good enough (and other “flaws”) and does not deserve the ACON and that the ACON can do a lot better?
Indeed.
Thanks so much for confirming, HG. I appreciate it. Would you be able to make a sure determination if the parent is a narcissist during a consult?
If you give me the correct information, which you will during an audio consultation. yes.