The Rules of Ex Club – No. 10
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Vent Your Spleen! (Please see the Rules in Formal Info)
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Hg – So if he is devaluing his current IPPS and I stay no contact then I will stay black? I mean assuming I don’t appear in the 6th sphere. I am hoping to stay black as much as possible.
Yes, as you point out, he may just think about you and you enter the sixth sphere and you may become painted white as soon as he thinks about you, owing to the devaluation of the IPPS.
“Until devaluation dictates otherwise” Hmmm does this mean devaluation of the current IPPS ? Then suddenly the exes are not evil and potential hoover targets?
Correct.
HG – If a narc is dating an IPPS and she is in devaluation does that mean all the narc’s exes will be made white or just those who trigger a hoover?
Those that activate the Hoover Trigger.
Evil? Even when the narcissist discarded me for a new wench and I’d been in a long term devalue? How could I become evil? I left without a fight at discard.
You’re evil because
1.) You left. You don’t get to leave. After all: It’d be annoying if your toaster or teapot got up and shuffled off one day.
If the Narc did in fact want you to go, then you’re still evil because…
2.) …you let them down. You stopped functioning properly. And that’s just not acceptable.