Getting Out!
Realisation has finally arrived that you have been sucked into the nightmare world of the narcissist. No contact is the way forward but have you got what it takes to resist the machinations of the Narcissist as she or he does their utmost to derail your campaign? You need to prepare for no contact and who better than to tell you how to do it than the dark-hearted master narcissist. Invaluable techniques are delivered so you can prepare and maximise your chances of attaining no contact and beating the narcissist.
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I remember my ex husband telling me how his former wife “kept secrets and had made plans behind his back to leave and start a new life” he described her as underhanded and dishonest. After 3.5 years in a “marriage” to him..I had to do the same thing. I had to deal with him recusing the family court commissioner, having the restraining order case instead heard by an ill equipped probate judge. He broke into, vandalized and looted my separate residence, tried to convince the court I had post partum depression, tried to claim I had abused him, bribed people to make false statements, intimidated my witnesses by phone harrassment, tried to force my home mortgage into default by filing a lis penens on a short sale, etc. To this day he is $60 K in child support arrears. I venture I will never see that money. He continues to feed his family falsehoods about the support order as the total amount he is ordered to pay is for NUMEROUS cases in our state alone…he has cases not only in other states but other countries too….I still deal with his flying monkeys and have to routinely block people on phone and social media who he has convinced that I am “dragging him into court for more support” when in fact it is the district attorney pulling him in for bench warrants due to contempt of court charges for refusing to pay as ordered for his many children he sired. I am the only woman he was lawfully married to at the time of his child’s birth.he had at least on other woman pregnant the same time as me. There is a permanent order of criminal protection against him for what he has done to me and I have full physical custody of my child. I find that no contact is not just blocking him and making sure restraining orders are in place, but also being constantly prepared to deflect flying monkeys (the coterie) on facebook, phone, gmail etc.
It never ends
Is your State Child Enforcement Division involved in your case? I am thinking he does not work and if so it is under the table. That is what my twin sister’s ex husband did. Men and women who refuse to pay for child support, eventhough court ordered are Narcissists. Do the other women who he has children with have a case with their State Child Enforcement Division? He has multiple cases through the State, imagine. Typical Narcissist behavior. Also, the flying monkeys and his family intrusion into your life are Narcissists as well. Glad you went no contact with your ex husband. Also, you may want to check your credit periodically to see if he has opened accounts on you or has attempted to do so. If you work and he has your social security number, he will more than likely attempt to use your social security earnings to gain financial benefits, because you were married. If he or anyone else has your social security number, please change it. Also, I believe if he receives an inheritance from his family, wins the lottery, or come into a financial gain, the State can garnish this money to repay back child support.