Getting Out!


Realisation has finally arrived that you have been sucked into the nightmare world of the narcissist. No contact is the way forward but have you got what it takes to resist the machinations of the Narcissist as she or he does their utmost to derail your campaign? You need to prepare for no contact and who better than to tell you how to do it than the dark-hearted master narcissist. Invaluable techniques are delivered so you can prepare and maximise your chances of attaining no contact and beating the narcissist.

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5 thoughts on “Getting Out!

  1. Kim says:

    Lynn. I used to wish to be hoovered in again also. My wish came true. Good Lord…. WTF was I thinking. It is worse now. His control seems more powerful. And to make matters worse I am on the shelf.
    Be careful what you wish for……

  2. Bibi says:

    Hey HG:

    I know I’ve not been active much lately but I just finished reading FUEL and whoa, what a great rundown of the mechanics behind this detached process.

    I especially enjoyed when you switched up the situation and removed all the negative fuel, but then noted how so much of the positive was obtained by boasting and bragging.

    I was thinking how exhausting it must all be and then you went on to state that very point–at least for us.

    It’s also interesting to learn that the sexual process is ranked below comments of adulation and admiration. That explains why I had several non-intimate narcs hang around so long due to my giving of flattery.

    I hope you and eveyrone are well. I have been so busy with work and life and I actually read FUEL on the workout bike and thought to myself, ‘Reading FUEL while releasing fuel.’ Haha.

    I enjoyed your insights and I thank you for writing it.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome. I am pleased you enjoyed it.

  3. LYNN says:

    No don’t need the book I still believe he won’t want me again, but don’t worry if I’m proved wrong I will definitely purchase your book. I think I frightened him away. called him at as a psychopath very strongly. Even though I felt like crumbling. In a way I wish he would Hoover, sadly I still feel like a good fight with him, I say sadly as that still means I’m not where I want to be which is indifferent so I don’t know what else you can do HG to rip out my emotional thinking. Wish you had another card up your sleeve. Think electrical shock treatment might be the card. 😂

    1. tigerchelle78 says:

      Lynn…. you still care don’t you? If you are angry, then you still care. They do not deserve that space in your head.
      You want him to Hoover, if you want that, then you will definately be sucked back in. It has to get to where you just don’t care anymore! Or indifference. And it will eventually….because one thing they are very good at is letting you down, and destroying all hope. They are so good at it, because it’s what happened to them. And it made them feel so utterly weak and pointless, that they decided they cannot handle that feeling ever again. So now they do it to others instead.

      I read FUEL and FURY, and they really put you off Narcs. My goodness…they really do. The way HG tells it, it’s so machine-like. And you see just how off-keel and imbalanced their thinking is. You realise these people are not…. well people. And I mean that in two senses. They’ve managed to actually trick not only everyone around them, by copying, imitating etc but also themselves into thinking they are like this superhuman god like person. So in actual fact they’ve manipulated and brainwashed themselves to believe their own make-believe stories. Most kids grow out of this by a certain age, but they haven’t. It’s stuck with them.

      They do not operate like us, think or feel like us. You cannot have a relationship with a machine that consistently brainwashes itself. It is like a broken record…..
      Basically there is more of an attachment/emotional connection with our pets, than there is with a narc/psychopath and us. All they are about is FUEL and keeping their childhood monsters at bay. Everything else is completely fake!
      There is more feeling in my toenail than there is in a narc.
      Only time will help this situation.

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