The Narcissist’s Social Media Laws – No. 13
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I never accept people I don’t know in person, I’ve learned my lesson.
He made so many false accounts, he flirted with his own fake account – this account joined my local neighbourhood group! I saw it and confronted him. He said I made him do it, it was a crazy period for him. I was just baffled, I don’t even know why people have more than one FB account – what is the point?
I’ve been bad. Very very bad!
I checked his FB profile. I spied.
I saw his conversations – through a friends profile page. He’s like a completely different person. Crude, rude calling women ‘slits’ and generally airing a totally anti-social personality – something I would never have found attractive ever!
When we ‘courted’ it was poetry and respectful friendships and words. I found him endearing and he had a vulnerability about him I could relate to.
Now, he is blatantly corrosive.
I am still fighting for answers and truth. I wonder if he is hurt at my ignoring his hoovers, I wonder a lot of things. No sign of a significant other – probably hidden.
I am my own worst enemy aren’t I?
I wish I never looked 🙁
Amanda,
I went on am unusual search some time ago and discovered multiple false profiles on several of my friends accounts. I also discovered that the narc was fb friends with every single person from work I had on my account and extra from someone else’s. I don’t attribute every false profile to him as there are plenty of other narcs out there but I started paying more attention and being more careful about what I post online. That is my life whether or not I just post a highlight reel. I would start weeding, popularity is over rated
great p[oint. thanks
this is happening to me. I get a ton of friend requests from weird people. I always accept them because I think it helps me to look popular to have many friends. What is the purpose of having multiple people? Like I am talking hundreds. I would think 1,2 is OK for the narc to be able to spy on me. What is the purpose of multiple, hundreds of those requests>?
Also, I am wondering if it is not the narc himself, but the narc’s victims, past or present? Or, possibly future? If those people can see that you are another of the narc’s possible love interests, they are likely to have a fake account if he blocked them so they can gather more information. Or just another account in general so they can see who else his love interests are.
I see clearly, now, that you were correct. From what I have experienced, ED is a TroubleMaker, a Provoker, and a Conniving individual.
I was taken in by her, and you were right, it seems, all along.
Thank you for trying to protect me from her; now I see for myself what you had been trying to tell me.
I’m sorry that I did not listen. You tried, though, and I thank you for that.
Take care ~
Welcome back to the fold. Kudos.
Thank you, but I do not feel that I will ever be accepted back, again.
But, it is my fault. She pretended to be my friend, only to make me her “Research Project”. At last, she even told me this is what she was doing.
She doesn’t even know me, and yet she thought she could make me her Project.
And then, just because I told her that I have no problem, whatsoever, with getting shots at the doctor’s office (such as Tetanus, Immunizations, ETC.,..), or getting Blood-Tests, or cleaning any accidental cuts out with Rubbing Alcohol, she accused me of being a predator, and even said that I was on the same level of predatory-type people as HG Tudor, and that he, and I, were in the same category 😡.
Amazing how she “knows all this about me” without even knowing me.
Mr. Tudor warned me about her, and tried many times to protect me from her, but I was led astray by my own … whatever one might call it.
She endlessly provoked me to question HG Tudor, even when I’d tell her to quit talking about him because it was unhealthy for me.
But, she’d continue, and it would trigger me, and set me off, and get me going…
I was wrong about Emotion Detective, apparently. And, Mr. Tudor was right. I tried to see the good in her, as I do with everyone. But, I was being naive.
I just needed to clear the air concerning this and to offer my apologies because I am accountable, and ultimately cannot put the blame on anyone else, but myself.
Thank you for reading this. I feel really mixed-up and vulnerable, at the moment. I feel that if a breeze just happened to ever so gently flow by, I would be hurled off, or knocked down.
I told her how one of the things she had said crushed me, and made me cry, and to never talk about it, again. Yet, about two comments later, she brought up the exact same thing that had brought me to tears in the first place! The second time, I realized she was doing it on purpose.
And then with her comment about my being her Research Project, I told her off, and blocked her for good.
I also got tired of her using her “Autism” as her constant excuse. Everyone has issues, but we are still accountable.
Yanconsky , Survival or whatever name you chose to use.
What are you up to?
Who did HG protect you from actually, ED or himself? I ask because I have seen you on another platform stating that HG blocked you on every single one of his social media site to protect you from his evil self and he ghosted you and now you are stating he tried many times to protect you from ED?
Why did you state HG blocked you when you are here.
From my understanding HG isn’t here to protect anyone from anyone yet give accurate information in how to handle and to GOSO, we each decide how to use the information he provides.
Twilight, I am up to getting ready to go swimming.
HG Tudor protected me from ED! I changed my name, again, because she started stalking me, and stalking all my comments.
I must have about 100 comments from her, in my WP box, where she begins her abuse, and tries to Stonewall, ETC,.. and then she furthered her abuse, and wouldn’t stop even when I was crying. Of course, I finally blocked her, even though I wanted to believe she was my friend.
HG did not block me, here, on WP. He blocked me on his Facebook and on his Twitter Accounts. This made me angry. 😡
No, you don’t understand. He tried to protect me from ED many times. And now, I see why.
She kept provoking me against HG, and wouldn’t drop it. I finally blocked her.
Still, I am responsible for my actions.
All her comments on my WP Site, and Twitter accounts would explain. But, I signed out of my Twitter Account.
Survival
Your exact words
HG Tudor protected me from his evil-self by blocking me on every single one of his social media sites, plus throughly ghosting me.
You accused him of blocking you to protect you from him, and then ghosting you.
Can you enlighten me on your meaning to this statement you publicly put out for the world to see?
No, I don’t feel like it. You’d have to understand the entire dynamics of the situation, and I don’t feel like explaining it all to you, nor do I feel like sending you hundreds of comments between ED, and I, (who I didn’t know at the time was using me). Yes, I did feel that HG Tudor blocked me from his self-proclaimed Sociopathic self by blocking me from Facebook and Twitter. I was getting way too addicted. He was protecting me. But, frankly, I owe no one, except Mr. Tudor, an explanation. Are you his daddy?
I don’t really think the entire world sees it; I don’t really think I’m that important. But, thank you for the friendly feedback, anyhow 😋
Why do they do this?
To exert control, to try to find out information about you and to provoke you into providing fuel.
Pardon me while I decline.
Summer last year I had five or so unknown friend requests, a few of which supposedly came from my home state. I remember telling my husband about it and he wrote it off, telling me gets them all the time. But I never got requests like that even with having a public profile. It was completely out of the norm. Interestingly enough some originated from my home state and all of them were into physical fitness.
I declined each and every one but I suspect that might be why I get odd friend of a friend requests. Maybe I could buy the lieutenants hats. They could feel extra important.