The Rules of Ex Club – No. 1


A series of memes explaining the rules that the narcissist applies to ex intimate partners

10 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 1

  1. Jessica says:

    Hg is this also true for former relationships that went further along like is an ex wife smeared as more crazy than an old girlfriend?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Broadly speaking that is correct, yes.

  2. Kathy Mor says:

    My narc ex husband tells everyone that I am the worst bitch he ever met in his life. Am I?

  3. Mercy says:

    I can relate to the girl in the meme. Seems perfectly normal to me!!

    1. mommypino says:

      Totally normal! We’ve all been there! 😊

  4. lisk says:

    I have been No Contact for exactly 28 days.

    I originally went NC after reading about “How to Get Your Ex Back.”

    Two weeks into NC, I found Knowing the Narcissist, and I have not looked back. Now that HG Tudor and other commentators on this site have given me clarity, NC is so much easier now. I have remained completely invisible and silent.

    I would not be surprised if my ex is surprised at my silence. I would not be surprised if my silence is making him (and his new prospect) nervous and worried that I might be plotting something crazy.

    While I may have fantasized about catching him in his lies, I no longer have any urge to do any such thing.

    But let him think I’m crazy or capable of being crazy.

    Silence is so sweet.

  5. Clarece says:

    Is part of the devalue with Kim having to do with her hitting a “crazy” plateau with you?

  6. EC says:

    Crazy? I take that as a compliment. Yes…Hahaha…Im bat shit romper room nuts. 😉

    You kept me HG…well ahead of my ex’s game. Still to this day people ask me how do I know what their moves are? My reply over and over is…HG told me everything.

    My divorce was as smooth as silk.
    Now a friend of mine is divorcing a narc…he stands stunned on some of the shit thats being done. She is ahead of him.
    Today….Im finna deal with his ass. Again….Im well ahead of his evil game. Im sure he’ll label me as crazy too. Crazy it is. Weeeeeeeree….Hahaha…

    I do hope you find your peace with God.

    1. MB says:

      EC, “I’m finna deal with his ass. “. Ha ha. ❤️ It!

    2. Caroline R says:

      Fantastic news about your victory. How sweet!
      As for “crazy it is. Weeeeeeee…..!”
      Ha ha ha ha!
      I imagined you going past wearing Heelys.
      Ha ha!
      Thanks for the Friday night comedy.

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