Understanding The Fuel Matrix
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All narcissists have fuel matrices and you need to understand where you fit into that fuel matrix and how that particular matrix functions as part of protecting yourself.
This Logic Bulletin takes you through :-
1. The Fuel Matrices of all sub schools of narcissist. This includes updated and expanded information about the Upper Lesser Type A and Upper Lesser Type B Narcissists, plus the Middle Mid Range Type A and Type B Narcissists.
2. What the Fuel Matrices look like, their size, the nature of the matrices and who sits in them.
3. How the relevant narcissist of each sub school relies on the individuals in the Fuel Matrix
4. What the Virtual Fuel Matrix is and how it operates.
5. How a Long Distance Appliance fits into it the narcissist fuel matrix and how that functions.
6. Detailed descriptions of each sub-school of narcissist, their behaviours and actions to increase your understanding of the different types of narcissist. This is a comprehensive expansion which will help you understand a lot more about the way different sub schools of narcissist operate.
A fascinating and educational exploration of the fuel matrix and the interaction between you and the narcissist, this is essential to know how the narcissist behaves so you can ensure your No Contact Regime is as effective as possible. It is also advanced reading for those who feel they are well-acquainted with the narcissistic dynamic from their existing reading and consultations.
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15 thoughts on “Understanding The Fuel Matrix”
Could you please write something about, if and why it is always like black and white (narcissist/no narcissist) and if not, what levels of narsissism exist? I guess the main narc in my life (not intimate partner), is a narc, but not a malignant one. He is bragging, he wants to have lots of attention, he is clearly manipulative, he can be mean, he gaslights and blame-shifts if necessary, but I don’t think he would destroy anybody and has empathy to a cartain extent. Is this possible? I always struggle with this dichotomy, totality that I see in your texts.
What do you consider Ted Bundy to be? Was he a greater? A lower greater? Which kind of greater?
Apparently, what I have learned through the Ted Bundy Tapes on Netflix is that he was a college grad with a B.A. in Psychology and after graduating he worked in politics, and then was a law student. He was very charming, grandiose, popular, etc. But as we all know he murdered and raped his female victims and was a necrophiliac. But I noticed that he acted like a victim and expressed a lack of awareness of why I did some things in the documentaries. So, I’m not sure if he was a greater. But committing such crimes falls under anti-social behavior disorder.
I have not studied Ted Bundy to form an accurate assessment.
Oh ok. It appears that the many narcissists that I have come across are not murderers (as far as I know). They were all midrangers.
1. Do some narcissists murder some of their victims due to their narcissistic rage?
2. Which school is murder more common in then?
I would think that the narcissists who are inmates in prisons are lessers and also Greaters, correct? Like you always say, the lessers have less control over their fury … and sociopathy in itself includes breaking the law …
Please see ‘Why The Narcissist Wants You Dead’.
What about Adolf Hitler then? What kind of creature is a murderer if narcissists want their victims alive? The only reason for a narcissist to murder somebody is if the person is an obstacle, you say. But clearly there are humans who murder just for murdering.
They were obstacles also to Hitler’s plans with regard to lebensraum, Aryan Supremacy and the Third Reich – hence they were removed.
i think my greater is a UGN. he is very manipualtive and creates very different scenarios of manipulations where he can call on many others in his fuel network to assist his machinations. He also has a network of enemies (his dark fuel network?)
i had escaped. he hoovered me yesterday by writing a poem about us. it was the most beautiful poem I have ever read and that anyone has ever written about me. It was our relationship in a poem. what a magnificent golden period. I am in heaven.
I am an idiot. he knew i would fall for that poetry crap. actually yes all of his gifts have always drawn me back to him 🙁
i need to start the new year winnning. I need to go no contact.
Good writing HG and great contextualization. This was very interesting to read I think Frank Sinatra was a lower greater. Trump I feel is a mid range greater.
Trump is an Upper Lesser.
wow i will re-read your categories and try to better analyze everyone. maybe then I am wrong with my narc. I really hope actually i have not met a greater 🙂 I guess I feel like people who are famous and in power should be greaters because of their jobs. I imagine lessers in jobs like janitors etc.
ultimately it does not matter. i need to go no contact.
That’s an insult to Upper Lessers.
HG, can the Greater narcissist collapse, or are you always winning?
For example sudden job loss, costly divorce, some circumstances that you lose the power you had, lose that huge matrix amd you have to start building again your position?
Is it pisaible to meet the greater but who collapsed and thats why he/she may more appear like lesser forms of narcissists?
It is nigh on impossible that a Greater would suffer a collapse.
I mean MGN
I guess R.Kelly is a UGN