The Rules of Ex Club – No. 4


15 thoughts on “The Rules of Ex Club – No. 4

  1. Joanne says:

    yup πŸ™„πŸ™„

  2. Whitney says:

    Yes he said I abused him.

    The mid-rangers are so confusing. I am so grateful for your explanations HG.

    My palms are sweating, I do not know what to do.
    I am no-contact with the LMR Somatic Narcissist who I still dream about.

    He entered the countries biggest fighting event as a fighter. He is only a novice but he thinks he’s a professional fighter. He got beaten up for 3 and a half minutes. I saw him the next day. He was covered in bruises and was whimpering in his sleep. I leaped out of bed and drove to the pharmacy for pain medication (I’m Carrier/Geyser).

    Now the fight video is on YouTube. I could watch it. I saw him as a powerful person. I believed his facade completely! I believed it was all my fault. I believed everything he said about me. I believed everything he said about himself. Maybe watching the video would help me see him clearly. He told me not to watch the video.

    1. Joanne says:

      Wow! Sounds like someone I would keep dreaming about too πŸ˜ͺπŸ€•

      1. Whitney says:

        Oh Joanne were you with a similar narcissist? πŸ˜” Should I watch the fight video? I would feel terrible for him but maybe it would help.

        1. Whitney says:

          Ok I watched it- My hands were covered in sweat. He did a pretty good job. He was extremely calm. Why am I attracted to psychopaths.

        2. Joanne says:

          No, not a similar one but that kind of fighter/bad boy persona thing would definitely appeal to me under the right circumstances πŸ˜ͺ It’s the video of his fight? I think I would avoid it. If he was getting pummeled as you said, I think your ET would surge, pity would overtake all LT and then you’ll be soft and vulnerable. Not a great idea If you want to maintain your distance and keep ET under control.

          1. Whitney says:

            Thank you Joanne πŸ’“ that’s right the video of his fight. I’m only attracted to grandiose men not vulnerable ones. So I thought the video would help me see through his facade. I’ve watched it twice now. He didn’t get pummeled. Luckily the other guy looked like a teenager and was skinny. It could be very dangerous for my Narc to fight a man.
            I noticed his disorder from the video. Extremely calm, and really enjoying it before the fight. It was funny, the commentators said “I’m not sure which gym he trains out of”. Because he doesn’t even train at a gym. πŸ˜†
            He looked stunned and surprised after the TKO and that helped me.

          2. NarcAngel says:


            ‘Luckily the other guy looked like a teenager and was skinny. It could be very dangerous for my Narc to fight a man.’

            I found that line humorous, and hopefully it helps you to see that he is less man than you desire.

          3. Whitney says:

            Thank you NarcAngel πŸ’• when I was pregnant he said all he wanted to do was f*** 18yos, that he might get a 16yo pregnant, and lots of other filth.
            Maybe I should tell him I wanna f*** the guy who beat him? I’m not going to but it would be good revenge.

          4. Joanne says:

            ugh, that is disgusting 🀬

          5. Whitney says:

            Sorry for your to read the filth Joanne πŸ˜”

          6. Joanne says:

            Don’t be sorry. HE is the one who’s disgusting! I’m sorry you had to listen to that!

  3. Sarah Jane says:

    Mine never did this. Never a bad word. But he did have several exes on his Facebook. I always used to think it was odd. They’re exes for a reason in my opinion and I don’t think it’s healthy.

  4. Christopher Jackson says:

    Interesting I believe it to hg

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