E-Mail Consultations – Get The Answers!


You can book a private e-mail consultation with me. I will answer you (subject to demand) within 96 hours.

  1. This costs US $90. You pay using the PayPal button BELOW.
  2. Once I receive notification of payment I will e-mail you using the e-mail address on your PayPal notification. Please note that all payment information is treated in confidence.

If you require me to e-mail you at a different address please contact me at narcissist1909@gmail.com BEFORE you pay to advise of the e-mail I should respond to.

3. I will then send you a short common sense protocol which governs our interaction.

4. You should then confirm acceptance of the protocol and submit to me your four questions. You can include an introduction/background to your situation before asking your questions. Please keep the background to under 1200 words. (If you need to extend the background you can purchase 500 extra words for US $ 40 using the button below. You may purchase as many additional word bundles as you need).

5. I will then answer you in detail within 96 hours of the receipt of the acceptance of the protocol and your questions. I respond with an audio file for you to listen to as this quickens turnaround time and means I can provide you with more information than if in writing.

6. You can book multiple consultations and draw down on the questions (4 for each consultation) as you wish, so you do not need to use them all at once. If you need to add additional background information you can also purchase additional consultations to cover the further reading and consideration that is required. Please note that the draw down is only applicable to multiple consultations purchases. For single e-mail consultations all 4 questions must be asked at the same time.

7. Please note the e-mail consultation DOES NOT include asking whether somebody is a narcissist nor does it include ascertaining what kind of empath you are.  Those questions are answered through the Narc Detector Consultation and Empath Detector Consultation, details of which can be found in the menu bar. Thank you.


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27 thoughts on “E-Mail Consultations – Get The Answers!

  1. amanda SNapchat says:

    can we use the email consultation just to chat with you? I wish there was a dating site here for all the lonely empaths :'(

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You can use it for anything you like.

      1. amanda SNapchat says:

        👀 (⊙ ‿ ⊙) thank you… This is great. Fantastic articles and books. I love your work

    2. Claire says:

      Oh Lord no. That would be a nightmare of gigantic proportions!

  2. Sniglet says:

    How will you do Skype consultations now that you are married HG Tudor? (living with someone is like being married…)

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I’m not married.
      Very easily, it is not an issue. The integrity and confidentiality of consultations will remain, it is business as usual.

      1. 19.19 says:

        I think they meant “how can you do these while someone could be in proximity”. Since you’d likely do it after work or on weekends, which is usually at-home-time. But perhaps I’m wrong. The question can be interpreted differently.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          As I explained, I am able to conduct them easily without affecting their integrity and confidentiality. People seem to forget I have been conducting these for 2.5 years and I had a girlfriend during that time also.

          1. Twilight says:


            “As I explained, I am able to conduct them easily without affecting their integrity and confidentiality. People seem to forget I have been conducting these for 2.5 years and I had a girlfriend during that time also.”

            Yet no one knows if you lived together which is why I see people questioning.

            I have no doubt you will keep the integrity and confidentiality of the consults, it is a matter of breaking her trust that will change things with in that realm. So long as she trusts you she will not feel threaten and become “nosey” on your business matters.
            It is a respect issue alongside of a trust issue.
            And one I believe you can control and keep focus on what is important for the both of you.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Nor are we joined at the hip.

          3. Twilight says:

            Nor did I assume you would be.

            Nor do I believe she is stupid and naive

          4. Twilight says:


            My point is I believe you have chosen a women that is of a high caliber and not one that is easily to fool with the foolishness of those beneath your caliber.

      2. Sniglet says:

        Will you tell her that you will be conducting consultations relating to narcissism?

        I know you’re not formally married but we both know living with a partner is exactly like being married sans the signed document.

  3. E&L says:

    To anybody needing assistance with the toxic types…I have just had my second GOSO consult, a previous email consult, a narc detection consult, and an empath detection consult with HG. And, every penny spent has allowed me to rise from the mire and continue on the path of living my own grown-ass life!!! NO therapist has ever been as honest and open or revelatory as HG. Thank you HG Tudor!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You are welcome E&L.

    2. Claire says:

      Agree E&L. I also like the reference to toxic types—the information is relevant whether one uses the term narcissist or not. The psychiatrist and therapist I saw were useless. It’s like saying they were going to have more
      life experience than me but they weren’t equipped in any way to help. After all this shit I’d have to see a reincarnated Maya Angelou to be of any benefit in a clinical setting!

      1. E&L says:

        Hi Claire, Yes, I don’t feel qualified to diagnose a narcissist. However, I am qualified to cease tolerating shitty behavior. I am tired of the therapy model of “processing” the emotion. I appreciate HG’s alternative approach of acknowledging my emotions, counterbalancing them with evidenced and logical thought, and acting accordingly. Truth and freedom are priceless! Welcome to Tudorville!

        1. Claire says:

          Hi E&L—I do see some blatant narcissism certainly but I prefer your term because it is more relatable if recounting it to another person. We can lose credibility using a clinical term. I know I role my eyes (at times) when people use clinical terms they aren’t educated enough to be entirely articulate about. It’s hard to hear what else they have to say.
          I’m equally tired of the traditional therapy model. Coincidentally, I emailed HG yesterday an illustration of what a therapist attempted to persuade of me awhile back. She wanted me to do a safe place schematic of sorts in my head and EMDR. I have no clinical complaints consistent with PTSD and I understand the “trauma processing” movement but it’s unlikely to be of benefit to me based on my personality style and regard that it is rubbish to be further broken down when I’m trying to rebuild. Zero logic. She also gave me Biderman’s Chart of Coercion and insisted we review it. She clearly felt it was groundbreaking and I quickly glanced at it and was ruffled with irritation. First, I have a fair amount of education and experience so I wasn’t presenting as a dribbling idiot. (I too can be a snob and love a nice pair of Manolo Blahnik shoes) It was absurd. I know exactly what education is amenable to those I interact with professionally based on how they present and brief conversation—it’s not a hard concept to fluff it up at times and dull it down at others. I wasn’t insulted per se—I was saddened by the failure of the mental health community. There are people I work clinically alongside that would be entirely enlightened by Biderman’s chart. Absolutely. She wasn’t way off base—just far from hitting a home run and the only home run is with HG. Her value currently would just be to vent—I am not going to gain excellent insight from her. Shards of it at times perhaps.. Not enough to routinely waste my time. I’m not saying I won’t have further moments of sadness—I do now. I feel them unfortunately but I take note and move on.

    3. amanda SNapchat says:

      what type of empath are you?

      1. E&L says:

        amanda SNapchat, hi, this is HG’s evaluation based on my answers to the very, cathartic questionnaire he created to provide him information…”You are majority CoDependent with significant minority Standard and Contagion traits” The whole process allowed me to partake in the understanding of myself, my situation, and my part in the relational engagement. The audio consult was also great. Unlike some of the literary non-fiction and stories HG shares on his blog, the audio I received was in conversational format and direct. The blog posts can then be reread with better clarity and understanding. Remember the words of HG…read, read, read and really understand…the tools are here. His work has helped millions of lives on this planet. No joke!

  4. Bekah B says:

    HG, how can I submit a letter to the narcissist? Are you still accepting and posting those?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I am. E-mail it to me.

      1. Bekah B says:

        Okay, thank you!!

      2. 19.19 says:

        Haha do you accept poetry?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          If you pay, I will read it. Once you make payment, the consultation is yours to shape so long as it abides by the protocol.

          1. 19.19 says:

            Oh sorry, I meant as a “letter to the narcissist.”

          2. Lou says:

            I believe there are no constraints as to the format of the letter. It’s a free exercise and you’re free to submit your letter to the narcissist in whatever form inspires you.

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