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    1. Claire, You are going to behave yourself! As you well know it is all based on using logic to get to the best possible solution that works for you and minimizes your ET. 🥰

      1. I know—I just feel like I can absorb the occasional punch for convenience in regard to the occasional text to make life easier with kid stuff. HG will work it out. I was furious he went out of the country last week with a wrinkled up bag (I know that is rude but it’s where I’m at and I’m not proud of it) and treated me like hell. Yes I know all the reasons ad nauseam but it is what it is. I wouldn’t even want him—it’s just an unnecessary emotional response that needs quenched from further impact. I kinda think the pain in the rear of not being able to communicate for convenience is apt to cause more perseveration on the injustice and absurdity of it all. I need narcissist Suboxone.

        1. Claire, everyone’s situation is unique to that individual, HG writes in a general manor to include all, but in consults he can look at your situation as an individual and give you the answers you need. You will be fine sweetie, stay strong! 😘🙃

          1. Sadly yes you are. An anonymous narcissist knows more about managing my affairs than I do. Talk about humility of substantial proportions..

          2. And I’m not in this game to just learn to swim my dear. A bitch style Michael Phelps breast stroke is more my aim.

          3. I think we will argue a bit because I insist on having my cake with no repercussions. I hate being inconvenienced.

          4. Well Claire that is one of your narcissistic traits coming through. Lol. You can not have your cake and eat it to as I’m sure you already know. ( as do I, because I have tried it quite often and failed each time. ) I have found that I would rather bang my head against a wall then to argue with HG. You see what ever you decide to do? His way will always be the correct way. 🥰🙃

          5. But I have no such traits! I’m an innocent victim and was just walking down a street when the mean narcissist pulled me into a cove! It was quite an event indeed.

          6. Claire as you know we all have narcissistic traits. Jealousy, conceit, getting are own way, etc. they are all part of the narcissist inside of all of us. The difference is we also have are empathetic traits that we always reflect back to. Somehow him pulling you into the cove is something I’m not to sure about? Lol I know myself many a times it was me pulling that narcissist into that cove! 😉😘

        2. Claire
          Let it all out. Anger is good, just post your way through it and be damn proud of it, too! I was.

          1. I legitimately almost threw a damn plate at a messy kid who didn’t clean it up! I can’t stand slobs!

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