Better Than The Rest



We regard ourselves as superior. Even a Victim Narcissist has a superior view of himself, he is special because of his illness and infirmity and this means that he should be treated better than everybody else. The Somatic Narcissist is better looking, physically fitter and has a tighter bottom than anyone else. The Cerebral Narcissist is cleverer, more intellectual, a brilliant advocate and has a brain the size of a planet and as for the Elite of us, well not only do we look great we are dazzling, witty, entertaining and knowledgeable, superior in every department to the likes of you. This lofty sense of ourselves is apparent all the time because we feel no need to hide our light under a bushel. Oh, we may attach some false modesty to some of our brags and boasts but it is only done to generate an ever more appreciative response from people around us. We like to remind people about our superiority repeatedly. It appears during seduction but you will naturally regard it as an attractive quality then, labelling it as confidence, a dynamic approach, someone who shows no fear and gets things done, an achiever, somebody successful and who doesn’t want to be associated with such a person. Accordingly, our superiority will be exhibited in plain sight but portrayed as good thing. It continues during devaluation as we repeatedly remind you that we are the master, you are the servant, we are in charge and you are not, we do and you are done to. Even when we hoover you we remain superior because someone who wants you back after the way you have behaved or someone who (falsely) recognises their own shortcomings must surely be superior mustn’t they? The unleashed smear campaign is another piece of our superiority. We are not smeared are we? We are impervious to it, nobody would dare do it and if they tried nobody would believe them because our innate superiority embodied in the façade that we have created. Every single step of your dance with our kind exudes our superiority. It is felt, seen, heard and witnessed, from the way we behave with you through to the way that we behave with others. It is natural to us and therefore should be expected. It is also necessary. If we are not superior to you, we cannot be in control. If we are not in control, then how can we keep you providing us with fuel? Our superiority is necessary. Our superiority is always evident. Here are twenty ways in which we demonstrate our superiority through the things we say.

  1. I don’t do domesticated
  2. I would never shop there. It is for the great unwashed.
  3. I wouldn’t expect you to understand what I am saying but you could at least try.
  4. Someone has to lead, someone has to make decisions.
  5. Don’t expect me to do something like that.
  6. Don’t be sorry, be accurate. Like me.
  7. I don’t have time for this.
  8. That isn’t something I would ever be found doing.
  9. People like me are above things like that.
  10. Yes, well it is about your level isn’t it?
  11. Don’t worry about it, how would you ever know that?
  12. These things are best left to people like me.
  13. It can be tough at the top you know.
  14. I don’t shovel shit.
  15. Do I look like a cleaner to you?
  16. I have more important things to do.
  17. This is minutiae and beneath me.
  18. Come back when you earn as much as I do.
  19. Show me a good loser and I will show you a loser.
  20. Do you know who I am?

5 thoughts on “Better Than The Rest

  1. Anm says:

    Please excuse this long list of characters.
    I’m either and Empath or Super Empath.
    My sister, on paper appears as a Super Empath, but is very much a Codependent (successful codependent?).
    My attorney is a super empath.
    My ex is an Upper Lesser, his attorney is also an Upper Lesser.
    I know it sounds like I am saying my team is Superior, but my ex and his attorney use a lot of word salad in court proceedings, my attorney can mop the floor with them in one hour.
    I’m approaching trial. I have decided to take on the few hearings before trial without my attorney. I know how to do filings and such.
    I showed my Codependent sister the paperwork I drafted for the courts, and I showed her some of the opposing parties pleadings.
    She sided with the Lesser Narcissist.
    I started to second guess myself. She stated the other side had legitimate concerns with my behavior from their perspective, and i also wasnt offering enough if I wanted to settle.
    Is it common for codepents to ALWAYS side with Narcissist?

  2. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    It’s always amazing when the high n mighty fall…… then comes the grovelling n apologies
    Too bad there will be no one to help
    Serves em right
    I watched this British hospital show about emergency patients
    There was this …. oh so pompous chap, 92 I think, who had written medical books and was Chief of Hospitals or some such hoohar …he was the elite
    At the end of his life he was left with only one person he was close to
    Regrets, he had many and was actually extremely sad n lonely
    One almost felt sorry for him
    Good article …. thank you
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  3. Kelly B says:

    “I don’t know if I should let you come over. You might be jealous of all the things I have.” OMG really I was saying to myself.

  4. Nicole Vallianatos says:

    A lesser who tried and failed to seduce me used alot of these. No clue why he was such jerk at time. I have learned alot

  5. lisk says:

    When we were looking to buy a house together:

    “I can’t live in an ‘artsy’ neighborhood.”

    Only established and swanky will do!

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