A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 54


moon letter to narc

 Dear Sunshine,
                            Well,you were my third lightning strike. So that means you’ve got some really good game.I wanted to congratulate you on how well you played me.Man,you really went above and beyond.
All those years of pretending to be my friend before confessing your love to me. It blows me away how much time and work you put in.Amazing job on pursuing me and knocking down all the walls I had built up. A beautiful display of love bombing. Absolute perfection.
You made me feel safe giving you my heart. I had the security of our friendship and felt that I had a pretty good idea of who you were as a person. All of it must have exhausted you. I guess that’s why your mask slipped so quickly. I knew you as the cool guy with a fun, outgoing,colorful personality, comedic with a sunny outlook on life, strong but gentle , an “open book” with a romantic heart.
And I left you as a lying, selfish, scheming ,weak,boring, creepy,irresponsible ,meth induced ,thieving , gay crossdresser . Damn, you really had me going there for a bit. I never saw it coming ,not from you.
    Yes,I left you. I left the others too. I always leave first and do it unexpectedly .Treat me right and I will treat you better, but if you decide to play me for the fool,you will have to pay the price. Before I go, you must be exposed. So I smile, pretend all is well, and act oblivious to the insanity. I watch and I wait untill I gather all the information to prove you are not who you claim to be. You never saw it coming,not from me.
Years down the road,if you are ever feeling frisky,and decide to go reaching on your shelf looking for me,don’t bother. My chord is still cut. If you don’t believe me plug it in and see. I assure you nothing will happen. Just ask the others. Stangely enough, I have a shelf too. Three lightning strikes that turned into three beautiful gold trophies. Try if you must to crush my soul and enslave me . Try to steal my inner light. You cannot because it is mine. It is protected and you can never have it. No one can.
  Game over,

7 thoughts on “A Letter to the Narcissist – No. 54

  1. Kate says:

    Hi HG,

    Moon’s letter really struck a chord with me. I read it yesterday and have been thinking about it ever since.

    I believe that only you could attempt to explain the following odd text exchange that I had yesterday. This was with an ex who lives far away, we have not seen each other in years and we have very rare, sporatic communication. He uses short, text-speak, usually “hi” from him and I do not always take the bait. I like to hear how he and his daughters and dog are doing. This is the text exchange from yesterday:

    Me (11:11 am) – “Hi”

    him (11:23 am) – “hello”

    Me (11:27 am) – “You have been on my mind”

    him (11:31 am) – “trying to figure out how to murder me?”

    Ummm, what?

    I need your help, HG, to understand…

    Thank you for everything that you are doing here for all of us!

    1. HG Tudor says:

      I can assist. Do book a consultation.

      1. Kate says:

        Hi HG,

        I absolutely will do that.

        As you may remember, we have had three audio consultations in the past, after an email consultation in January 2018. I get so much out of our communications and wish that I could afford to talk to you more!

        How does someone go about writing a testimonial for your site? I would like to submit one to you for your approval, if that is your preferred method.

        Thank you.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Thank you. Just email it to me and ask for it to be used as a testimonial.

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  3. KellyD says:

    Awesome Moon 👏. You inspire me.

  4. Lisa says:

    Direct and to the point! I like that! Thanks Moon.

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