How To Co-Parent With A Narcissist


Often viewed as one of the harshest outcomes from an ensnarement with a narcissist is the issue of children and co-parenting with the narcissist. A frequent question that is asked of me by many individuals who find themselves in this predicament, worn down and unsure of how to go about this in an effective manner for both themselves and also their child or children.

The most common reason given to failing to implement total no contact is the issue of shared parenting with a narcissist. The attempt to escape the nightmare of ensnarement is viewed as unachievable and increases the concern, fear and anxiety for the non-narcissist parent in feeling eternally chained.

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Co-Parenting as part of your no contact regime

Tackling handover arrangements with regard to children

Reducing the risk of being hoovered because of co-parenting

Handling hoovers if they happen through the co-parenting regime

How to address communication with the narcissist with regard to co-parenting

What to do when the narcissist becomes problematic concerning arrangements

What to do where the narcissist involves a new partner with the children

What to expect in terms of the extent and regularity of the narcissist’s involvement in the co-parenting process

How to deal with joint decision-making, such as matters of education or health

How to handle occasions where joint appearances occur in relation to school or sporting events

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10 thoughts on “How To Co-Parent With A Narcissist

  1. Getting There says:

    HG, is it possible for the following situations in regards to co parenting:
    – UMR (coparent) to have influence over another UMR (the new partner)?
    – UMR (coparent) to have influence over a lower greater (the new partner)?
    – A normal or empath (new partner) not being influenced in any way by UMR (coparent)?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. Yes.
      2. Yes.
      3. Yes.

      1. Getting There says:

        Thank you, HG!
        That is a lot of power the UMR coparent has.

  2. Anm says:

    You are lucky as fuck

    1. Lorelei says:

      Hi Anm—hope things improve for you. I know you’ve been through the ringer in this regard.

      1. Anm says:

        I appreciate the sentiments. It has been very difficult, but I charish the time I have with the kids. I guess that’s the idea

        1. Lorelei says:

          Anm—it is the entire point. I’m also someone they want to be with which is the even bigger point. When living with their father I didn’t even want to be with myself! The misery had a trickle effect. Last night my 13 year old snuggled up and didn’t pull away and my son made my bed and was excited for me to see what he had done. There is little capacity for these seemingly trivial events with their father. A genuine experience can’t be had with these men (or women for men dealing with narcissist ladies) on a regular basis.

        2. WokeAF says:

          I’m not aware of your situation but I’ve read some of the comments and my heart fully goes out to you .
          Yes just love the shit out of them whenever you have them and let them know they can come to you for real connection .
          Sorry for the pain you must be having for the pain your children might be having

  3. WokeAF says:

    There’s not too much of a problem here. He wants to see the kid occasionally at his own decision of when, and me to frig off otherwise basically. Kid is almost 16 so that’s fine. I’ve left it up to kid and dad, which is heartbreaking but …🤷‍♀️
    Kid doesn’t understand bc I always pushed and forced dad to do more and I’m done with it bc now I see what’s up. Finally. Dad is loving this. No more dad, really.

    I gotta figure out how to help kid understand without calling dad a narc bc kid loves dad.
    Does this package cover that at all? Lol

    1. WokeAF says:

      I realize this isn’t directed at me by the way
      Happy coincidence .

      I will consult w u first on my empath type.
      Then if I think I can handle it, I’ll consult w you on narc detector.
      If you deem babydaddy to be a narc, I will perhaps purchase this.

      The kids are almost grown so, I honestly am and can just be damn near no contact. We’ve been separated 13 years other than co parenting which he doesn’t rely want to do and I don’t care.
      It’s been a long ass 23 years of co/parenting. I’m done.
      I only see him twice a month to get child support and I don’t engage. Smile and nod, smile and nod.
      It’s sad to think this anyhow – and I may just decide to not know FOR SURE just bc – I don’t need to. Maybe some things I don’t want to know LOL . Imagine that! As long as I ACT AS IF he is.

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