Spreading The News Around The World
My work changes lives, informs and provides people with the understanding and freedom that they have sought, often for a long time and in the most challenging of circumstances.
It has been read in every country around the world bar six. (I will be speaking to those countries later.)
I receive repeated gratitude every day from readers who have been aided by it and alongside this thanks requests for my work to be made more widely available across various languages so the widest number of people can be reached and helped.
Generous readers have already assisted with translations of some of my work into Spanish, French and Italian. This is only a start.
Building on recent discussions work is underway with regard to German, Bulgarian and Russian translations also.
You know others need help.
If you can translate from English into another language and you are willing to assist with Spreading The News Around The World (Project Mercury) please email me at narcissist1909@gmail.com so the team can be assembled further.
My thanks in advance.
Hg Tudor
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This is great H.G. You are making your legacy ;I’m so proud of you!
Thank you.
HG, what do you think would bring you inner peace? Comfort? The ability to relax, without worrying about a construct or facade?
Fuel.
Beyond fuel. Where there is no race for fuel.
If someone knows what you are (another narc, or a family member… some non-competitor), does that allow you to relax and feel peace?
No, that is a threat.
My dear HG I know you and I’m not a threat am I. I accept and love you. You can be yourself with all of us. You are a magnificent person.
HG what is a threat? You commented No, that is a threat?
I am unclear what you are referring to. I do not see previous comments in moderation. You will have to be specific.
Never mind HG, for some reason I looked and the comment was gone, I looked again and moved up the thread to where it should be. 🤷♀️
FM1T,
Someone knowing what he is, that’s the threat.
So instead of relaxing and feeling peace, he would feel threatened by someone knowing what he is.
Or at least, this is how I understood HG’s reply… 🙂
Hello Abe!
For some reason my phone or wp moved moved that comment around and it was at the bottom of the thread all alone. It didn’t make any sense to me. But the next time I looked at my phone the comment was back under the question it belonged with and made sense to me. Thank you for trying to explain it to me though Abe. 😘
Abe,
I’m sorry if my comment back to was confusing. For some reason this morning I have more energy than I know what to do with! Lol
Wow… That’s unimaginably restrictive/tense, to not have a soul to be yourself with (in person). Being “on” for long periods of time is exhausting.
Does this forum help you relax? Even thru anonymity, being open and speaking YOUR mind, not what you think the listener wants to hear, it must give you some reprieve.
Are you fully open with the doctors, or do you maintain the facade?
I do not truly relax, my mind is always considering matters, thinking, assessing and so forth. I think there is force in what you suggest that being able to impart the information through anonymity does have a certain catharsis to it.
I do not trust the doctors BO, therefore one is mindful all of the time. I have given them a lot of information about myself in order to learn more about myself.
In one of these recent threads, you commented “a small bird just died as a result of that criticism” (something along that vein). You were joking, but it brings up a frequent empath/narcissist issue:
We can’t know what words trigger an injury response (until we step on the mine). I dare say that most empaths want to avoid this. Would you be so kind to gently let us know, thru your responses, what might be considered an injury to most narcissists, so that we can learn to avoid those minefields? Or would the ppl writing in take offense to that?
During the silent treatment that ensues after a perceived criticism, is the narc stewing over what was said? Or would they rather get past the insult and be friends again?
Hello BO,
1. You do not need to focus on whether the narcissist responds to wounding or challenge fuel because if you have imposed no contact that becomes an irrelevancy to you.
2. If you ignore the narcissist without emotion you wound, if you challenge the narcissist in some way and you do so with emotion (e.g. insult the narcissist) you provide challenge fuel.
There are so many different ways you might wound or issue challenge fuel that it is a huge task to provide you with them all.
I understand your point (no contact means no worries about injury). I do go no-contact with the most toxic narcs (the malign ones). There are SO many narcs fluttering in my empath aura (very, very few “normals”), it’s impossible to no-contact all of them without giving up on humans and staying home.
Essentially, by learning how to avoid fuelling ppl, it’s another form of manipulation. It is a power struggle that the narcs (unaware of what they are) do instinctively, empaths have to learn thru trial and error. Including (but not limited to) knowing what info not to share.
One narc once told me that he liked hurting ppl (“good to know”, delivered without pause or expression). He later confessed that our friendship wouldn’t work bc he “had no leverage” against me. Alrighty then.
It’s very strange to me that ppl think that way. Ignorance is bliss, until it isn’t…
Congratulations, Mr. Tudor. You have certainly earned recognition and you deserve respect for your work in this area. I hope this new legacy you are building will overshadow your previous one. A rare accomplishment in life, I believe. Although it doesn’t really matter what I believe. I will no longer refer to you as psychopath.
I have recommended your work to colleagues and clients; which recommendation I had to justify and defend. Which I readily did based upon your undeniably recognizable expertise in this area. Whether it will be productive, I can’t say.
You have earned my loyalty. I had to undertake some due diligence, as I’m sure you understand. I had to somehow reconcile in my mind your abusive actions with your endeavor in this matter. I still hope to one day read some articles about a new dynamic in your behavior which does not include abuse, but focuses on your success herein. I hope you stop acting like a dick; but I have read about your feelings concerning ‘hope’.
I am now an advocate of HG Tudor. I believe your assistance packages are invaluable and I would highly recommend them, and you will be my first, if not only suggestion for information concerning narcissists.
Of course I will comment again sometime; because I do like words so I have to use them. I expect a professional working relationship between us in the future.
Sincerely,
Die Proven
(I will, by the way)
Dearest HG: Please do not forget about your faithful audio people over on Youtube. Some may want to work with the International translations. I used to be over there as well, before I made it here. I was surprised by all the people over here, when I came from Youtube to Narcsite as one of your followers. They may want to help out, and never made it over here, yet, since you have around 700 videos over there that they are working through.
I will be uploading more videos on Youtube presently and I already have translated videos in the pipeline.
I can’t help with translation, but I’d love to do some proofreading of English versions. I’ve expressed this before. Just reiterating. It seems you may have that in hand already. Newer articles reflect that.
I would be willing to assist in this way also, if there is need.
You are going to save the world, HG. Which is quite ironic. 🙂
Well I do hold it in my hands.
Aha!! They are your hands. I knew it!
HG
Why did you get rid of the post I sent you for this article?
No post came through FM1T. I have just checked in the bin in case it was sent there and it is not there or in spam. Do repost.
You sent me a Thank you for it? It was posted there a few minutes ago?
Then is it not still there?
No HG it’s not. No worries. Lol
Nope it’s not there anymore HG. Hahaha.
Must have been eaten.
Do you see, I knew that word salad would not keep you full! 🙃
Ha ha very good.
This is wonderful HG. Congratulations! 🍾🥂
Thank you.
It’s not really a big deal HG. I just said it was a wonderful idea and congratulated you. That’s all it was.
Thank you FM1T, I appreciate that.
FM1T – no more horse photos?
That big baddie reminds me of Tim Curry’s role in the movie Legend.
WhoCares,
FoolMe1Time was in the mood for a change. The love of my ponies are only one side of me, I also have a dark side which was scratching to get out.
“I also have a dark side which was scratching to get out.”
FM1T, I can identify – and not just with the love of equines.
Sisterrrrr Yes!! Haha!
I knew it. 🙃
Of course we have a dark side, we are dirrrrrrtyyyy!!!
Hahaha SP! I didn’t even think of that!
🖤
WhoCares,
The ponies are in training right now. I am trying to train at least one of them to lay down on this (I crossed the emotional seas) beach towel that I purchased. Lol. 😘
FM1T, I didn’t know you were involved with hands on training with the ponies – that’s fabulous…re: the towel…is that for a photo-opp?? Correct me if I’m wrong but wouldn’t it have been easier to buy the canvas version of ‘I crossed the emotional sea’ , set it on an easel and have the horse stand or walk by it?
Of course that would have been easier WhoCares. I opened my mouth and put my foot in it! That word salad must not have filled me up either! Lol
WC
When I bought the towel I said I would have one of the ponies lay down on it. Boss man said he wants to see a picture of that. So the challenge is on! Haha
Ah, I missed that conversation – but I was right about it being for a photo opp. Good luck FM1T!
Haha! Thank you WC. 🙃
WhoCares,
I have just reread your comment to me about the horses. I don’t really train those horses! They are wild and have been on that island since the 1600’s. They have never proven for sure how they came to be there, some think a Spanish galleon carrying horses sank off shore. Other’s believe that the colonial settlers brought them and let them there to graze. Assateague Island is a National Seashore so those ponies are protected. But if I can get one to lay on my beach towel you definitely see it as my Gravatar. Haha.
Thank-you FM1T for setting me straight and yes, I’ve heard the Spanish galleon story before.
Regarding the beach towel, as I said elsewhere – good luck FM1T…from my own personal experience, on the spectrum of stubbornness, ponies are far closer to the donkey side of the spectrum than to a horse.
WC,
They are horses not ponies. They are the size of ponies because of adapting to their surrounding environment, they also have bloated stomachs because of drinking sea water and eating the vegetation that grows in that area.
FM1T,
Thank-you. I did not know that…or maybe I did when I used to do all my reading and be around horses when I was young but have since forgotten.
Most of the ponies I’ve known were actually ponies and they were quite ornery.
Yes WhoCares, there are times that I believe ponies have little man syndrome. Lol
I’m laughing to myself because I’m certain that this just teetering on the fence between on and off topic.
Hahaha WC! I’m pretty sure you correct in your thinking. 😉
FM1T
Your horse pictures are beautiful, but this new picture stopped me in my tracks!
He’s hot!
If he was wearing clothes, I’d want to be ripping them off right now.
The fantasy is perfect with the blonde heroine having been overpowered in his strong arms….clearly she stopped breathing from anticipation of being ravished by him….
Pure N/E fantasy…..of course he’d have to have a handsome face too. And a sexy voice.
And a good job. And have taken her out for dinner…..And be single….I’ll stop thinking about it now, I’m ruining the fantasy…..
Caroline,
I hate to ruin your fantasy but he didn’t over power her. He burnt everything around them to the ground, and yet never left the fire touch her. But I’m happy you liked the picture. Lol
FM1T
Thank you for your reply, since I wrote my first comment, I see that your gravatar picture has changed. It’s quite alluring too, their limbs entwined in passion, and she is awake and ready for action. I was originally commenting on the ripped red bad man with wings and horns who held the swooning blonde empath. I’m happy to see the other artwork you have in your gallery of N/E fantasy.
FM1T
I live the new picture….,reminds me of a song
https://youtu.be/XIw_e2B0AbE
Thanks Twilight. I’ll listen to it when I’m finished commenting.
What I really would like to do as well is to add a service of personal consultation-translation. They could email you like a regular consult, someone interprets it (recorded) and sends it to you, and the same process back. It would help the victims so much. But maybe, after they read your work and get to know what you do.
Good idea, email that to me please.
I’ll email it to you together with this idea: what do you think about providing a glossary of common terms and acronyms at the beginning of each translated work? In the same way you have that on your website, but adding the translations and short explanation. I’ll provide more details in my email.
Thank you.
What about confidentiality HG? I guess that is something the translators will have to explain on the page where they purchase the consult.
The protocols will also be translated FM1T but thank you for raising it.
I was just thinking about someone else reading my personal information and I wasn’t sure if I liked that or not? But I guess getting the answers that they need outweighs more people than yourself reading it.
Valid observation FM1T. I have not made any decision with regard to whether I will use a translated service for consultations. I know there is a need but it may prove unwieldy. I will state that the material which is sent to be translated (if this is done for consultations) would not contain any personal information.
I didn’t mean to cause any confusion HG, I was just curious as to how that would be handled. I know at times discussing situations that happen in narcissistic relationships can be very personal to open up about to just you, I don’t think I would like knowing someone else besides you is reading it. But then I have trust issues.
You speak English so it is not an issue FM1T!
Some would debate that with you HG. Haha. I was actually thinking out loud or writing out loud as to if I would have had to had my questions translated. I think I would trust you judgment when it came to the person or persons translating for you. I believe it would be more important to have you address my questions other then worrying about someone else reading my information.
You really didn’t have to use an exclamation point HG, I was not trying to start trouble.
The exclamation mark was used to denote that I was having a joke with you. If I used a full stop (period) you may have thought I was admonishing you.
Oh HG! Hahaha! Everyone but myself would have thought that except me. Haha, You should know by now that I am your problem empath?! Lol
You are not a problem.
HG, apologies for my last comment being mixed around with some of the words. Also thank you for your kind words, however you and I both know what a unique individual I am. Haha
Ha ha, no problem FM1T,
Let’s sing to him in French.
You need to start using emojis, HG.
A small bird was just throttled for that comment.
Hahaha
Please don’t hurt the birds HG!
Okay I will just charm them from the trees.
Haha! That’s much better HG. Don’t stand under the tree when you are charming them HG, that could end up being a very messy situation! 🙃
Oh I am not concerned FM1T, nothing sticks to me.
That was very good HG, very good indeed! Haha
#TeflonTudor
#4real
NA That’s actually fantastic! I don’t know if you remember a comment I posted a while ago in which I explained my doctor (the same one who likes my blood being sucked) told me we needed to find a way for me to go from being Velcro to being Teflon? Maybe HG will teach me during the consultation.
Bird poop from the sky can stick to you!
Not me, I am too fast.
😂😂😂😂🐥
I love how he’s an emoji snob. My friend Mary* is too but she totally hooks up with strangers in hotel rooms.. Go figure.
I would rather hook up with a stranger in a hotel room than use an emoji.
You know what Mary* did!! She told me! The last guy had a small penis so she told him she wanted anal sex. Omg. Yet, no emoji use! I’d rather die.
See? Emojis help to keep your standards 🍆
Sweetest—can you imagine actually looking at some stranger’s business and telling him only anal sex will suffice? She also says small penis encounters are automatically expunged from her record. She IS the main reason I got sent to private school at one time.
Hahaha! I have a friend like that, though I met her in a private Catholic school lol.
Sweetest—think about the fuel loss my poor dad sacrificed to send me ten hours away. He couldn’t engage in perverted overtures any further and he lost a good bit of
money. It ended up being a win for me!
Ok what about just the Empath Detector and the Narc Detector? I’m sure everyone wants to know this information.
I do not understand your question SP, I do not see the previous comments in my moderation pane so could you expand?
Sorry HG, I typed very quickly as I was getting some bloodwork done at the doctor’s office this morning (it’s becoming a thing to suck my blood these days). I was commenting back on FM1T’s concerns about confidentiality in the victim’s consultations through the interpreters’ recordings. I added this suggestion that maybe you don’t feel comfortable with translating personal consultations, but still would like to provide translation services for the documents Narc and Empath Detectors. I need to send you an email with my idea but I need to meditate it first.
Thank you. I have not made a decision on this yet. I can see scope with regard to the detector consultations, the audio consultations are difficult because the whole point (especially with the audio) is that it is a dynamic exchange and use of a translator would not work with those.
But translators can work under the confidentiality clause and are anonymous, not to mention that so are the victims. And we all write out details in the blog which cannot be more public! the idea is to help them communicate with HG, if anyone doesn’t feel comfortable they don’t have to use the service. I personally know a couple of friends who could use it but don’t speak English well enough to do so.
SP, I knew if I planted the seed the rest of you would work it out. I just didn’t want all of you to forget about it, that’s all. Hahaha 😘
FM1T, I’m glad you brought up the confidentiality point. I know that for me I would choose not to get the help from HG if I knew someone else was going to see my information. I understand not all are like me and would trust whomever HG trusts. I would assume HG would clearly identify who would have access to the information when doing the protocols to give that person the choice.
Indeed, I take confidentiality extremely seriously. Unfortunately a handful of others do not. Fortunately most do.
HG, I do take it seriously and didn’t want to cause a problem for you with my suggestion.
You have not done so and suggestions are always welcome. This is a constructive place.
HG
I haven’t really stopped to think this completely through, but doesn’t assigning numbers instead of names to the consultations remove any risk of confidentiality being breached? As in translators etc?
Indeed and no information would be passed to a translator that would identify the person. In some instances I do not know the real name of the client because they do not provide it to me.
Excellent. Then as I suspected, no one need worry about anyone reading/translating their information.
NA, THAT’S what I was thinking, most of us have a fake name or a number. THANK YOU. In turn, I wouldn’t like anyone to know who the translator or interpreter is either.
I know you do, HG. That is why I trust you.
And you can do so through the blog and the consultations.
“A small bird was just throttled for that comment”
That reminds me, I found your video titled “Wounded animal” yesterday that features a picture of a little fox with his front leg in a casket. I LOVE Foxes! So I couldn’t resist, but braced myself internally since I remembered how you let Kates dog escape because he was hogging her attention. As I klicked on the video, your voice called me out for assuming that this is a story about how you hurt an innocent animal once, and that this is not the case.
Now I’m embarassed. But also happy that no Foxes where harmed in the wake of HG Tudors fuel needs.
Desirée, that picture of the fox melts my heart. Now I want to rescue foxes.
SP,
they are! I once got to hang out with some rescues. Some of them can’t go back to the wilderness once they are tame because they would not survive there anymore. They are really lovely and high energy and can even be trained! Their overall demeanor and expressions are really similar to dogs.
And they have a cute little giggle-like voice. It’s decided! I want a fox.
HG,
in wounded creature, you stated that you have taken steps to ensure you will never die like a decrepit. In your conversation with AS2016, the dentist was brought up by you several times. You have a cyanide tooth, don’t you? Tell us the truth!
I would tell you but then I would have to….
…kill me? That seems fair and worth it. Just make sure I leave a beautiful corpse behind. Headshots are gross and I want to look good in crime scene photos. Poison or choking.
Ha ha, duly noted.
I wish I could “like” your comment, NA, with that solution. I can only comment though.
HG, noted on consultation and blog. If I run into you in person, can you give a sign so I know not to trust you outside? Middle finger won’t work either. That is a greeting for some.
You need not be concerned you are unlikely to meet me on the “outside”.
A very good idea. I’m already on the list to translate your books, i’m still waiting for your response in regard to my last email
I will reply Stella when I ascertain the level of assistance that has been provided across the relevant languages, thank you.
Great job hg I’m sure it will spread very quickly when in different languages…congrats
Thank you CJ.