Why did the narcissist choose you? How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon? Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe? This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner. What are the things that various types of narcissist look for? How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits? What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists? Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous? Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone? What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights? These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.
2 thoughts on “Sitting Target”
Its not just being chosen but our/my choosing.
I know that you’re super busy.
You astonish us with your productivity.
You aim for excellence with building your legacy, and your reputation.
We care very much for your reputation and for your success.
We always have your best interests at heart.
Do we not tell you often how much we appreciate you?
As the content of ‘Sitting Target’ describes our beautiful, beautiful, beautiful core traits that are hijacked by the N and used against us, and the process by which that happens, it is an ill-considered choice to feature an ugly parasitic, predatory, repulsive creature on the cover.
We the beautiful-traited ones are your target audience. It’s we who are buying and reading, and I can no longer recommend it to anyone, or buy it for anyone, with this cover.
We don’t want to see repulsively ugly.
No one wants to see the picture of Dorian Gray that he kept hidden away.
Even he didn’t like looking at it.
No man that I know would read it with this artwork. They just wouldn’t. (I’ve expanded a little bit more about this in your Instagram post, under my initial comment).
It doesn’t reflect well on you and your work.
Less people will get the information they need, not more.
This doesn’t help to further your legacy, or achieve the residual benefits part of your prime aims.
What other options were there?
Can you show us some other designs please?
I’m sure that there were some good ones. Haven’t I expressed my admiration for your recent new creative efforts?
The photo of the hand cradling the heart used for the ‘why we target you’ article is perfect, and if you overlaid that with a gun sight that would be an inviting cover, one that gives a good sense of the content of this book….
Your book that I was previously able to highly recommend to everyone, and would like to continue to do.