5 False Promises of the Narcissist
The promise is used by the narcissist repeatedly, whether through Promised Gain or Future Faking, it is a mainstay of our manipulations against you, but what are the five most often used false promises that the narcissist is using against you and what does the narcissist ACTUALLY mean?
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I think what hurts the most HG, is that your kind doesn’t feel love . A tough thing to swallow .I cant grasp it still because of my ET. 23 years down the drain. How did I not see the lies !!!!
I also didnt think that infidelity would be having intimate conversations with someone what would be an example of that .
On average how many people have figured out what you are and left escaped or do you always discard them
It is not something that an average would be applied to.
Ok have you ever had someone other than the ex you spoke about see through you and get out before the golden period ends
Accurate 5.
“I’ve always loved you. You just don’t know it.”
HG,
how does Greater feel about the fact that I’m just truly sorry for him? And….can you/your kind actually comprehend what that really means to be sorry for someone else? Because it feels a bit different than feeling sorry for yourself.
Thank you for all of your work here. Such eye-opener…
1. You are unlikely to be with a Greater, use the Narc Detector Consultation to find out.
2. If he is and you feel sorry for him, he will take that as fuel although he does not want your pity, as Greaters we do not and this feels to us as a challenge and must be scorned.
3. I understand cognitively what being sorry for someone is, although I regard it as weak to do so. I do not know how it feels, as I do not feel it, but I have heard it described many times.
4. You are welcome. Thank you for reading, Mia.
Written from your brain , actually believe me or not it’s from your heart. Bottom line is your kind are incapable of any promise whatsoever because you can’t. You have been neglected and now protect yourself from most of the joys in life that are a given freedom of joy. I appreciate your honesty as always. Again it’s what you think about you bring about. If someone as powerful as you with your thought process you can bring about joy! Never ever say you can’t! As we learn from you , I can be certain that you too have learned from us!
No, it is from the mind, not the heart. The heart is something which pumps blood around your body. It does not make you write anything. If you mean in the sense of it being written from feeling, you are wrong again as I have made it abundantly clear, it is written from the mind, through understanding, not from feeling.
Literally correct. Ok you got me! I had to check my emotions with your response. Thank you Mr.H . Lesson learned
«Just because you and others do not like the way that I behave does not mean that I have to alter what I am»- sounds very familiar.
“Life is given only once and it is too short”
Narcissists can’t feel any sensation. All they express through words is just manufactured. They watch normal and empathic people and then copy their behaviors, and they do it in a perfect way, so it seems to us they are the most perfect individuals in the world, but they are not. They are empty, and some of them are aware of this. My narc for example claimed often his lack of empathy, and in a missive ti his sources written after his exposure to apologize stated that there was a creature inside him, (the same exact definition used by HG, only in italian version), and he was going to start a therapy. Of course it was a lie and a Pity Play, and thanks to HG I and the other victims became able to start and mantain no contact after a missive like that. Reading HG’ s work I found a lot of similarities between he and my narc, even in their family story. My narc’s parents treated him as a Golden Child and his mother always expected him to be better than anyone; infact he had a very high score when attended high school, and then he took two degrees. He referred to me that he felt a great pain because of his mum’s behavior, so he decided to remain single and not to have children. Infact his primary source is his mum, he lives with her and he only cultivates IPSS. In that is different from you, HG, as you have had primary sources and even a wife, have you?
Wrong. We do feel certain emotions, just a limited range however compared to normal and empathic people.
Emotions such as anger, envy, hate? Or something different?
And all the bad ones…. never the emotions that are pure and good….
Oh, I bet Italy is loaded with male narcs who received that very same upbringing.
You are from Italy? I had one Italian (ex) friend who was in love with a womanizer. She was friend zoned by him as he wanted to be free( he had tough childhood) and have experience with different girls. She would get jealous easily when she saw him with a new girl.
AR I Suppose your comment is addressed to me. Yes, I’m Italian and I like to interact here to improve my English unformal communications and to escape from the DLS of my narc who’s been stalking me for 2 years on my social media. I’m quite sure she won’t read what I’m writing here because she doesn’t know English language (luckily). With regard to your friend I think it’s normal to be jelous of your partner if he or she pursues other affairs. My narc had a harem of about 20 women, and said to each one they were the one and only. Once again I apologize for my unperfect espressions when I write here because surely I will make some occasional mistake lacking of direct experience. I heard that studying English only through books results in acquiring a Shakesperian English
Yes Stella, it was addressed to to you. Why don’t you block her?
Well they were friends with benefits in the beginning. But she wanted to be more than just FWB. I know that getting jealous is normal but there was one time when she couldn’t control her emotions and got angry at him. She wasn’t his girlfriend. I don’t know how he is with other girls but he was honest with her. And in her case if she really loved him it was better for her to be just friends(that is whey did). He had some degree of respect for her as they would often hang out together with their mutual friends.