To escape the narcissist, you must fight two battles.
The enemy without – the narcissist
The enemy within – emotional thinking
From my existing work you should be familiar with the concept of emotional thinking. This is what drives the need to continue to engage with the narcissist. It clouds logic and perpetuates those unwanted feelings concerning the narcissist. Conquering your emotional thinking and achieving Zero Impact is the goal to achieve freedom from the narcissist.
Emotional Thinking (“ET”) misleads and causes you to believe you are embarking on a logical course of action when you are not. ET is so powerful it operates without you even realising and this is why external, objective expert input is essential. How can you break free if you do not realise what you are doing is detrimental to your interests? Yes, there are some things you realise that are problematic, but there are also many actions you engage in which you have no idea about which are making your life more difficult than it needs to be and continues your ensnarement with the narcissist.
The effect of ET should never be underestimated and causes people to
- Return to the arms of the abuser when they swore they never would
- Continue to battle the narcissist which means fighting The Unwinnable War
- Seek answers from the very person who will never provide them
- Remain stuck on the The Narcissist´s Wheel of Misery
- Fight the smear campaign in the wrong fashion
- Believe they can somehow make the narcissist come back to them
- Suffer emotional pain, hurt, fear and anger which can be removed
- Labour under the misapprehension that the narcissist cannot be escaped
These are just a few of hundreds of examples go how ET is your enemy and must be conquered.
By understanding how high your ET is and what that means, you will then be able to understand what you need to do to conquer it, how this impacts on your no contact regime and understand why problems persist. It will enable you to utilise Logical Thinking and finally meaningfully slay the enemy within and achieve freedom.
- The cost is US $ 100 and payment is made using the PayPal button below. You can also use debit or credit cards. Payment information is entirely confidential and private.
- If you want to use an email which is different to that in your PayPal account, please notify me at firstname.lastname@example.org
- You will be sent a comprehensive questionnaire which has been carefully constructed to elicit the right information from you.
- You return this questionnaire to me.
- I undertake the assessment and within 96 hours of receipt (subject to any external professional commitments I have which may extend the time period for turnaround occasionally) provide you with confirmation as to the level of your emotional thinking and the risk level associated with that. You will also be advised of the next steps which can be taken to lower or preserve the level of ET.
- The entire process is confidential.
Tackle your ET and set yourself free!