Angel In Waiting GT


Dear Readers and Supporters of the Angel Assistance Fund,

In an effort to offer a transparent view to the Angels in Waiting, I have created a sponsorship programme.

Every Angel is pre-vetted and anxiously awaits assistance through my counsel. When you select an Angel you wish to sponsor and make the associated donation for their assistance, your Angel will be provided with life-changing assistance.

After their consult, you will receive a personalized followup from your sponsored Angel and you will know how you have directly influenced positive change in their lives. This will be provided through me in order to preserve anonymity and confidentiality between Sponsor and the Sponsored.

The programme will be updated regularly. Thank you for your generous sponsorship. Only you can can change the life of an Angel. Here are the words of a recently assisted Angel who asked for this message to be placed on the next AIW request

From a grateful reader with very dire finances, having lost at least two jobs through the years due to narc relative often calling employer:

I want to thank the Narcsite readers who donate to Angel Assistance.

From the bottom of my heart.

HG suggested Co-parenting With A Narcissist package for my situation. I’ve since already listened through the audios twice.

Now feeling much armed and confident in a circumstance where the coparent, among other things, started to let the kids meet my sometimes violent narcissist relative, on his days. A reaction to my no-contact regime.

Thanks to HG Tudor, and you guys,
I now have options to act in a meaningful way, and can better remove my emotions from this energy-draining stressful situation. This benefits the children, and me.


Stronger Mom”

Angel GT

Angel H would like assistance for an audio consultation. She has contributed US $ 30. She would like assistance with the balance so that she can receive input to prevent the repeated hoovering that she is experiencing from her ex-boyfriend. She struggles with feelings of guilt for ending the relationship and the impact it has on him and recognising the need to implement a total no contact as being the only way to ensure that she is able to move forward. She has tried no contact several times, but has failed. She is depeserate to stop his hoovering.

To help Angel GT, please use the button below. You can adjust it accordingly to contribute as much as you wish towards the top-up of US $1, if you wish to make a smaller donation than the full amount required, by selecting more than one, in the quantity section.

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61 thoughts on “Angel In Waiting GT

  1. MB says:

    HG does do the AAF for free. He fields the requests for help. Vets the applicants, collects the portion they are able to pay, (I really like that he asks them to contribute what they can.) and keeps up with who has paid what for which Angel. All this while being the middle man to maintain the privacy of all parties. Plus, he pays for this platform as E.B. stated which allows it all to happen. That’s a lot of juggling when it would be much easier just to do the consults in the standard way.

    I’m not attacking Topsy. It is a fair question for those that haven’t been a part of these discussions before.

    I just wanted to point out that HG does have more investment in the consultations for the Angels than for the standard consultations. And in that respect is offering his services for free that even make the fund possible.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you MB.

      It was not a fair question. The individual concerned has been reading the blog for at least two years and therefore knows full well what is done here.

      1. MB says:

        You’re welcome. Well deserved.

        Oh, there was information I didn’t have about the individual. Provocation then. And if they happen to be a narcissist, we all provided a bit of fuel so they are likely to Hoover again. I’ll ignore next time.

    2. Mercy says:

      MB, I’m glad you said that about not attacking Topsy. I don’t know who she is and I guess someone new wouldn’t understand what HG does for us. When I made my comment it was a sore spot for me because I’ve been reading older post over the last few days trying to catch up. I ran across several comments about HG charging for services and it upset me. HG is kind to us and has our trust. Something that an outsider wouldn’t understand coming from a narcissist.

      On the flip side he will never be able to win his critics over because of ignorance. If someone who was not a narcissist ran this site they would be considered a saint for all the time they devote to helping people. No one would question what that person gains from it. But, because HG is a narcissist he should offer his help for free. Even if he did offer everything for free it wouldn’t be good enough.

      1. MB says:

        I agree Mercy. The result is the same for the benefactors of HGs work no matter what his reason for doing it. As a die-hard Tudorite, I soak up every bit of knowledge I can for as long as he will provide it. The word of his work is spreading and he will continue to be applauded by all but the Hard of Understanding.

      2. FoolMe1Time says:

        She or it is not new. Don’t worry about your sore spot, keep it!

    3. E. B. says:

      I think that people like Topsy come here to provoke.
      I have not heard of any therapist, psychologist or expert offering *free* email and voice private consultations to people who contact them over the internet. If any, they may answer a general question but not about a reader’s particular case.

      This blog is the only place where people can receive immediate expert assistance for their particular situation. It is for free when they first come here and ask some questions. Everyone gets help direct from the author.
      They also know about the free material and that HG has published dozens of books affordable for all.

    4. FoolMe1Time says:

      You should be attacking it MB, I believe HG might have left that window open again?!

  2. Topsy says:

    Why don’t you just do it for free

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. Hundreds of articles provided for free.
      2. Hundreds of Youtube videos provided for free.
      3. Tens of thousands of queries answers here for free.
      4. Email queries addressed – for free.

      Haven’t you some immigrants you want deporting to attend to? Or perhaps coaching Trump not to kowtow “to Israeli” interests, Fiona.

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Why bother even trying to explain HG? They just don’t get it! 💞

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Sometimes they need to feel the smack of firm governance FM1T.

          1. FoolMe1Time says:

            I understand. Sometimes it just gets old. Everyone wants something for nothing!! I know it’s not everyone HG, it’s just frustrating.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Not everybody FM1T, but I understand your point.

          3. FoolMe1Time says:

            I know it’s not everyone HG, in fact it only happens every so often. I’m sorry if anyone was offended by my comment.

          4. HG Tudor says:

            You have no reason to apologise.

          5. FoolMe1Time says:

            Thanks HG

          6. Dolores Haze says:

            People involved in consulting industries get that a lot 🤦‍♀️ “We are a nonprofit charity, why don’t you offer us your services for free?” (You are a charity – we are not); “We are a startup and don’t have any money, don’t you want to help us?” (You’re a business looking for a B2B service. Pay for it); “Why is your hourly fee so high?” (It took me years of study and practice to offer you this expertise within an hour. You’re essentially paying for my years, not my hours. It’s really a bargain if you look at it this way).

          7. HG Tudor says:

            Indeed Dolores. You pay for the expertise, not the time. Here is a story.

            Once upon a time, a man consulted a lawyer. He outlined the issue and a day later the lawyer sent the man a letter which read
            “You will win the case, the damages will be large.” He enclosed an invoice for $ 1000.
            The man called the lawyer and said,
            “Thanks for the letter, I am pleased with the advice, but come on, $ 1000 for a one line letter? What’s all that about.”
            The lawyer slowly replied.
            “$10 for the time to write it. $ 990 to know what to write.”

          8. Dolores Haze says:

            Good one! If I may: off topic, but about lawyers.

            Two lawyers sit down at a restaurant, take out a sandwich each from their briefcases and start eating. The waiter protests: “Excuse me, gentlemen, but it’s not allowed to eat your own food here”. The lawyers shrug, exchange sandwiches and go on eating.

          9. HG Tudor says:

            The necessity of accuracy.

            Or a gun.

          10. Lorelei says:

            I feel like so just talked about the need for accuracy! Maybe a few hours ago—I can’t ever be wrong or the consequences are potentially quite large. As I stick around here more and more I see that you aren’t wrong.

          11. FoolMe1Time says:

            May I use this HG it’s a good one!

          12. njfilly says:

            I love the sound of a firm smack.

      2. Sweetest Perfection says:

        Oh oh how I love those two final questions, HG. IN YOUR FACE!

    2. Desirée says:

      HG spends plenty of time providing excellent advice, the kind of which you could not find anywhere else. He is entitled to compensation for his consultation services. He has also been quite accomodating, offering services for half-price and offering to match the donations in September. Your comment makes you look short-sighted and ungrateful.

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        She is short sighted and ungrateful Desirée. You are to kind.

      2. Lorelei says:

        Desirée—we should be grateful HG moderates our endless banter about clothes and colors. Does he even click on the links we add to comments?

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Every time you post about clothes and colours, I give a dog chocolate.

          1. Lorelei says:

            That’s not nice!! Almost made me fall off the treadmill!

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Stop blame shifting, you.

          3. alexissmith2016 says:

            agh no! it’s not the fault of any dog

          4. HG Tudor says:

            Like I give a rat’s ass.

          5. alexissmith2016 says:

            okay well feed me chocolate instead – I’ll sacrifice myself on this one

          6. HG Tudor says:

            Ha ha very good. I have two flavours for you Milk Chocolate with Cyanide or Dark Chocolate with Agent Orange.

          7. alexissmith2016 says:

            Clearly my N traits are stronger than my contagion ones – let the dogs have it.

            Loreili stop talking about lipstick and things. My cognitive dissonance is going through the roof!

          8. Lorelei says:

            You should like dogs. Mine have a play pen, they get dog deodorant and brushed. They are like stuffed animals.

          9. HG Tudor says:

            I prefer them stuffed. Full of chocolate.

          10. Lorelei says:

            I want a Bichon Frise.

          11. HG Tudor says:

            I have one here. It is not doing much though.

          12. MB says:

            I have two Bichons, Lorelei. They are like Doritos, you can’t stop at one!

          13. Lorelei says:

            I adore they cute fuzziness MB.

          14. NarcAngel says:

            Omg! Doggy deodorant is abuse. Their noses are so much more sensitive than ours. They probably have massive headaches. Stop the madness!

            I’m not one for over deodorizing humans either. Scented laundry soap, scented body wash, scented shampoo, scented deodorant, scented lotions, then people slap on a fragrance. It’s nuts. I mean if we’re clean, what are we trying to hide?

            Rant over.

          15. Mercy says:

            NarcAngel, I agree. Not only is it overpowering but those artificial scents are toxic. I like a spray of perfume but I prefer natural scents from oils for hair and skin.

          16. Lorelei says:

            I just sprayed air freshener too NA.

          17. Lorelei says:

            Here’s a song for you to play in the background when you Hoover next!


          18. Mercy says:

            Haha HG I love it that you never let us forget what you are.

          19. HG Tudor says:

            I am what I am. I, unlike others, do not hide it here.

          20. FoolMe1Time says:

            HG dogs can’t have chocolate! Please don’t take it out on an animal, there are plenty of human beings walking around you can take it out on.

          21. HG Tudor says:

            Why do you think I said I would give them chocolate?!

            There are no dogs near me.

          22. FoolMe1Time says:

            Well of course there are no dogs near you! You give them chocolate, that are all dead! Give it to Alexis instead, she volunteered!
            Save the Dogs!! 🙃

        2. PrincessSuperEmpath says:

          Lorelie: I prefer to not name the fields, but I was in two separate fields, that in both of them, if you discovered you made a mistake, you had better RUN, and I mean literally RUN and tell on yourself immediately. Anyway, a few years ago, I was listening to some conference on the radio, and medical Doctors were discussing that they wanted to be able to tell patients and their families that they were sorry, when bad things happened during surgery or various diagnosis, etc., but the Doctors said they could not tell the grieving and distraught clients/patients that they were sorry, because it would be used against them as an admission of guilt in legal and malpractice lawsuits, per their legal councils` instructions. It was an interesting discussion. One and done: I never heard that particular discussion ever again. Basically, living in a litigious society means never being able to say, you are sorry. Or, that, you were wrong.

          1. Lorelei says:

            Princess—agree. I also take pride in not missing things. Sometimes knowing what you don’t know is as important as knowing a lot.

    3. NarcAngel says:

      I would ask why don’t you stick to one name instead of trying to hide behind several others, but I know the answer is because you are a coward with no substance and that is what they do.

      1. FoolMe1Time says:

        Love you Sister!

    4. Mercy says:

      Why would he do that? Your question is ignorant. If you had something valuable to offer would you do it for free?

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Good use of “if”.

        1. Mercy says:

          Exactly, I can’t imagine anything of value would come from that type of ignorance

    5. E. B. says:


      re: “Why don’t you just do it for free”
      Apart from offering all these articles on this blog and other platforms for free, his time to publish *all* our comments and to answer our questions for free, do you think that he does not have any expenses such as paying for all these platforms, legal/financial/tax advice and services, publishing, marketing, translations, equipment and many other business expenses as a consultant and author?

      There are over 72,000 subscribers to this blog. I suppose most readers are aware of the consequences of financial and economic abuse. If readers contributed with $1 to help other survivors, it would not be necessary to post all those articles asking for help.

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Thank you EB.

        Topsy has gone quiet. What a surprise.

    6. ThePolicyOfTruth says:

      This question boils my piss. Pardon my Franglais.

      Would you work for free?

      Oh yeah, I forgot you can buy food and pay bills with “exposure”. Silly me!

      HG does more than enough for free with his blog.

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