HG does do the AAF for free. He fields the requests for help. Vets the applicants, collects the portion they are able to pay, (I really like that he asks them to contribute what they can.) and keeps up with who has paid what for which Angel. All this while being the middle man to maintain the privacy of all parties. Plus, he pays for this platform as E.B. stated which allows it all to happen. That’s a lot of juggling when it would be much easier just to do the consults in the standard way.
I’m not attacking Topsy. It is a fair question for those that haven’t been a part of these discussions before.
I just wanted to point out that HG does have more investment in the consultations for the Angels than for the standard consultations. And in that respect is offering his services for free that even make the fund possible.
Oh, there was information I didn’t have about the individual. Provocation then. And if they happen to be a narcissist, we all provided a bit of fuel so they are likely to Hoover again. I’ll ignore next time.
MB, I’m glad you said that about not attacking Topsy. I don’t know who she is and I guess someone new wouldn’t understand what HG does for us. When I made my comment it was a sore spot for me because I’ve been reading older post over the last few days trying to catch up. I ran across several comments about HG charging for services and it upset me. HG is kind to us and has our trust. Something that an outsider wouldn’t understand coming from a narcissist.
On the flip side he will never be able to win his critics over because of ignorance. If someone who was not a narcissist ran this site they would be considered a saint for all the time they devote to helping people. No one would question what that person gains from it. But, because HG is a narcissist he should offer his help for free. Even if he did offer everything for free it wouldn’t be good enough.
I agree Mercy. The result is the same for the benefactors of HGs work no matter what his reason for doing it. As a die-hard Tudorite, I soak up every bit of knowledge I can for as long as he will provide it. The word of his work is spreading and he will continue to be applauded by all but the Hard of Understanding.
MB,
I think that people like Topsy come here to provoke.
I have not heard of any therapist, psychologist or expert offering *free* email and voice private consultations to people who contact them over the internet. If any, they may answer a general question but not about a reader’s particular case.
This blog is the only place where people can receive immediate expert assistance for their particular situation. It is for free when they first come here and ask some questions. Everyone gets help direct from the author.
They also know about the free material and that HG has published dozens of books affordable for all.
1. Hundreds of articles provided for free.
2. Hundreds of Youtube videos provided for free.
3. Tens of thousands of queries answers here for free.
4. Email queries addressed – for free.
Haven’t you some immigrants you want deporting to attend to? Or perhaps coaching Trump not to kowtow “to Israeli” interests, Fiona.
People involved in consulting industries get that a lot 🤦♀️ “We are a nonprofit charity, why don’t you offer us your services for free?” (You are a charity – we are not); “We are a startup and don’t have any money, don’t you want to help us?” (You’re a business looking for a B2B service. Pay for it); “Why is your hourly fee so high?” (It took me years of study and practice to offer you this expertise within an hour. You’re essentially paying for my years, not my hours. It’s really a bargain if you look at it this way).
Indeed Dolores. You pay for the expertise, not the time. Here is a story.
Once upon a time, a man consulted a lawyer. He outlined the issue and a day later the lawyer sent the man a letter which read
“You will win the case, the damages will be large.” He enclosed an invoice for $ 1000.
The man called the lawyer and said,
“Thanks for the letter, I am pleased with the advice, but come on, $ 1000 for a one line letter? What’s all that about.”
The lawyer slowly replied.
“$10 for the time to write it. $ 990 to know what to write.”
Two lawyers sit down at a restaurant, take out a sandwich each from their briefcases and start eating. The waiter protests: “Excuse me, gentlemen, but it’s not allowed to eat your own food here”. The lawyers shrug, exchange sandwiches and go on eating.
I feel like so just talked about the need for accuracy! Maybe a few hours ago—I can’t ever be wrong or the consequences are potentially quite large. As I stick around here more and more I see that you aren’t wrong.
Topsy
HG spends plenty of time providing excellent advice, the kind of which you could not find anywhere else. He is entitled to compensation for his consultation services. He has also been quite accomodating, offering services for half-price and offering to match the donations in September. Your comment makes you look short-sighted and ungrateful.
Omg! Doggy deodorant is abuse. Their noses are so much more sensitive than ours. They probably have massive headaches. Stop the madness!
I’m not one for over deodorizing humans either. Scented laundry soap, scented body wash, scented shampoo, scented deodorant, scented lotions, then people slap on a fragrance. It’s nuts. I mean if we’re clean, what are we trying to hide?
NarcAngel, I agree. Not only is it overpowering but those artificial scents are toxic. I like a spray of perfume but I prefer natural scents from oils for hair and skin.
Lorelie: I prefer to not name the fields, but I was in two separate fields, that in both of them, if you discovered you made a mistake, you had better RUN, and I mean literally RUN and tell on yourself immediately. Anyway, a few years ago, I was listening to some conference on the radio, and medical Doctors were discussing that they wanted to be able to tell patients and their families that they were sorry, when bad things happened during surgery or various diagnosis, etc., but the Doctors said they could not tell the grieving and distraught clients/patients that they were sorry, because it would be used against them as an admission of guilt in legal and malpractice lawsuits, per their legal councils` instructions. It was an interesting discussion. One and done: I never heard that particular discussion ever again. Basically, living in a litigious society means never being able to say, you are sorry. Or, that, you were wrong.
Topsy
I would ask why don’t you stick to one name instead of trying to hide behind several others, but I know the answer is because you are a coward with no substance and that is what they do.
re: “Why don’t you just do it for free”
Apart from offering all these articles on this blog and other platforms for free, his time to publish *all* our comments and to answer our questions for free, do you think that he does not have any expenses such as paying for all these platforms, legal/financial/tax advice and services, publishing, marketing, translations, equipment and many other business expenses as a consultant and author?
There are over 72,000 subscribers to this blog. I suppose most readers are aware of the consequences of financial and economic abuse. If readers contributed with $1 to help other survivors, it would not be necessary to post all those articles asking for help.
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HG does do the AAF for free. He fields the requests for help. Vets the applicants, collects the portion they are able to pay, (I really like that he asks them to contribute what they can.) and keeps up with who has paid what for which Angel. All this while being the middle man to maintain the privacy of all parties. Plus, he pays for this platform as E.B. stated which allows it all to happen. That’s a lot of juggling when it would be much easier just to do the consults in the standard way.
I’m not attacking Topsy. It is a fair question for those that haven’t been a part of these discussions before.
I just wanted to point out that HG does have more investment in the consultations for the Angels than for the standard consultations. And in that respect is offering his services for free that even make the fund possible.
Thank you MB.
It was not a fair question. The individual concerned has been reading the blog for at least two years and therefore knows full well what is done here.
You’re welcome. Well deserved.
Oh, there was information I didn’t have about the individual. Provocation then. And if they happen to be a narcissist, we all provided a bit of fuel so they are likely to Hoover again. I’ll ignore next time.
MB, I’m glad you said that about not attacking Topsy. I don’t know who she is and I guess someone new wouldn’t understand what HG does for us. When I made my comment it was a sore spot for me because I’ve been reading older post over the last few days trying to catch up. I ran across several comments about HG charging for services and it upset me. HG is kind to us and has our trust. Something that an outsider wouldn’t understand coming from a narcissist.
On the flip side he will never be able to win his critics over because of ignorance. If someone who was not a narcissist ran this site they would be considered a saint for all the time they devote to helping people. No one would question what that person gains from it. But, because HG is a narcissist he should offer his help for free. Even if he did offer everything for free it wouldn’t be good enough.
I agree Mercy. The result is the same for the benefactors of HGs work no matter what his reason for doing it. As a die-hard Tudorite, I soak up every bit of knowledge I can for as long as he will provide it. The word of his work is spreading and he will continue to be applauded by all but the Hard of Understanding.
Mercy
She or it is not new. Don’t worry about your sore spot, keep it!
MB,
I think that people like Topsy come here to provoke.
I have not heard of any therapist, psychologist or expert offering *free* email and voice private consultations to people who contact them over the internet. If any, they may answer a general question but not about a reader’s particular case.
This blog is the only place where people can receive immediate expert assistance for their particular situation. It is for free when they first come here and ask some questions. Everyone gets help direct from the author.
They also know about the free material and that HG has published dozens of books affordable for all.
You should be attacking it MB, I believe HG might have left that window open again?!
Why don’t you just do it for free
1. Hundreds of articles provided for free.
2. Hundreds of Youtube videos provided for free.
3. Tens of thousands of queries answers here for free.
4. Email queries addressed – for free.
Haven’t you some immigrants you want deporting to attend to? Or perhaps coaching Trump not to kowtow “to Israeli” interests, Fiona.
Why bother even trying to explain HG? They just don’t get it! 💞
Sometimes they need to feel the smack of firm governance FM1T.
I understand. Sometimes it just gets old. Everyone wants something for nothing!! I know it’s not everyone HG, it’s just frustrating.
Not everybody FM1T, but I understand your point.
I know it’s not everyone HG, in fact it only happens every so often. I’m sorry if anyone was offended by my comment.
You have no reason to apologise.
Thanks HG
People involved in consulting industries get that a lot 🤦♀️ “We are a nonprofit charity, why don’t you offer us your services for free?” (You are a charity – we are not); “We are a startup and don’t have any money, don’t you want to help us?” (You’re a business looking for a B2B service. Pay for it); “Why is your hourly fee so high?” (It took me years of study and practice to offer you this expertise within an hour. You’re essentially paying for my years, not my hours. It’s really a bargain if you look at it this way).
Indeed Dolores. You pay for the expertise, not the time. Here is a story.
Once upon a time, a man consulted a lawyer. He outlined the issue and a day later the lawyer sent the man a letter which read
“You will win the case, the damages will be large.” He enclosed an invoice for $ 1000.
The man called the lawyer and said,
“Thanks for the letter, I am pleased with the advice, but come on, $ 1000 for a one line letter? What’s all that about.”
The lawyer slowly replied.
“$10 for the time to write it. $ 990 to know what to write.”
Good one! If I may: off topic, but about lawyers.
Two lawyers sit down at a restaurant, take out a sandwich each from their briefcases and start eating. The waiter protests: “Excuse me, gentlemen, but it’s not allowed to eat your own food here”. The lawyers shrug, exchange sandwiches and go on eating.
The necessity of accuracy.
Or a gun.
I feel like so just talked about the need for accuracy! Maybe a few hours ago—I can’t ever be wrong or the consequences are potentially quite large. As I stick around here more and more I see that you aren’t wrong.
May I use this HG it’s a good one!
I love the sound of a firm smack.
Oh oh how I love those two final questions, HG. IN YOUR FACE!
Topsy
HG spends plenty of time providing excellent advice, the kind of which you could not find anywhere else. He is entitled to compensation for his consultation services. He has also been quite accomodating, offering services for half-price and offering to match the donations in September. Your comment makes you look short-sighted and ungrateful.
She is short sighted and ungrateful Desirée. You are to kind.
Desirée—we should be grateful HG moderates our endless banter about clothes and colors. Does he even click on the links we add to comments?
Every time you post about clothes and colours, I give a dog chocolate.
That’s not nice!! Almost made me fall off the treadmill!
Stop blame shifting, you.
agh no! it’s not the fault of any dog
Like I give a rat’s ass.
okay well feed me chocolate instead – I’ll sacrifice myself on this one
Ha ha very good. I have two flavours for you Milk Chocolate with Cyanide or Dark Chocolate with Agent Orange.
Clearly my N traits are stronger than my contagion ones – let the dogs have it.
Loreili stop talking about lipstick and things. My cognitive dissonance is going through the roof!
You should like dogs. Mine have a play pen, they get dog deodorant and brushed. They are like stuffed animals.
I prefer them stuffed. Full of chocolate.
I want a Bichon Frise.
I have one here. It is not doing much though.
I have two Bichons, Lorelei. They are like Doritos, you can’t stop at one!
I adore they cute fuzziness MB.
Omg! Doggy deodorant is abuse. Their noses are so much more sensitive than ours. They probably have massive headaches. Stop the madness!
I’m not one for over deodorizing humans either. Scented laundry soap, scented body wash, scented shampoo, scented deodorant, scented lotions, then people slap on a fragrance. It’s nuts. I mean if we’re clean, what are we trying to hide?
Rant over.
NarcAngel, I agree. Not only is it overpowering but those artificial scents are toxic. I like a spray of perfume but I prefer natural scents from oils for hair and skin.
I just sprayed air freshener too NA.
Here’s a song for you to play in the background when you Hoover next!
https://youtu.be/EOEkdHQl1Fc
Haha HG I love it that you never let us forget what you are.
I am what I am. I, unlike others, do not hide it here.
HG dogs can’t have chocolate! Please don’t take it out on an animal, there are plenty of human beings walking around you can take it out on.
Why do you think I said I would give them chocolate?!
There are no dogs near me.
Well of course there are no dogs near you! You give them chocolate, that are all dead! Give it to Alexis instead, she volunteered!
Save the Dogs!! 🙃
Lorelie: I prefer to not name the fields, but I was in two separate fields, that in both of them, if you discovered you made a mistake, you had better RUN, and I mean literally RUN and tell on yourself immediately. Anyway, a few years ago, I was listening to some conference on the radio, and medical Doctors were discussing that they wanted to be able to tell patients and their families that they were sorry, when bad things happened during surgery or various diagnosis, etc., but the Doctors said they could not tell the grieving and distraught clients/patients that they were sorry, because it would be used against them as an admission of guilt in legal and malpractice lawsuits, per their legal councils` instructions. It was an interesting discussion. One and done: I never heard that particular discussion ever again. Basically, living in a litigious society means never being able to say, you are sorry. Or, that, you were wrong.
Princess—agree. I also take pride in not missing things. Sometimes knowing what you don’t know is as important as knowing a lot.
Topsy
I would ask why don’t you stick to one name instead of trying to hide behind several others, but I know the answer is because you are a coward with no substance and that is what they do.
Love you Sister!
Why would he do that? Your question is ignorant. If you had something valuable to offer would you do it for free?
Good use of “if”.
Exactly, I can’t imagine anything of value would come from that type of ignorance
Topsy,
re: “Why don’t you just do it for free”
Apart from offering all these articles on this blog and other platforms for free, his time to publish *all* our comments and to answer our questions for free, do you think that he does not have any expenses such as paying for all these platforms, legal/financial/tax advice and services, publishing, marketing, translations, equipment and many other business expenses as a consultant and author?
There are over 72,000 subscribers to this blog. I suppose most readers are aware of the consequences of financial and economic abuse. If readers contributed with $1 to help other survivors, it would not be necessary to post all those articles asking for help.
Thank you EB.
Topsy has gone quiet. What a surprise.
This question boils my piss. Pardon my Franglais.
Would you work for free?
Oh yeah, I forgot you can buy food and pay bills with “exposure”. Silly me!
HG does more than enough for free with his blog.