A Very Royal Narcissist – Update

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The Sussexes have left the country.

Is Canada pleased to see them?

Want to know where this is leading ? A Very Royal Narcissist – The Inside Track

What did the Queen´s statement reveal before the Sussexes departure?

What did Prince Harry´s speech tell us about his mindset and current situation in his ensnarement?

Miss Markle´s father has entered the fray once again – what is he and what do his comments tell us?

Gain further brilliant insight and analysis on the continuing saga from HG Tudor in the next part of a Very Royal Narcissist – Part 13, coming shortly.



  1. It’s surprising to read your take on Meghan as a narcissist and claiming to an expert on the topic. To me with all her Dad’s rants, antics and interviews, combined with her half sister it’s clear that she is not a narcissist but a daughter of one. Experts on psychology will say she exhibits classic signs of a child with a narcissistic parent. Children who grow up with a narcissist parent are guarded and often come across as displaying selfish tendencies. As an expert would know, the only way to escape a narcissist’s turmoil is to completely cut them out of your life. I feel if wary of the information on this site if someone claiming to be knowledgeable of the topic failed to see those major red flags. Her Dad can’t keep quiet about her, admitted to lying about her and clearly has no concern for her happiness but rather his own agenda of feeling slighted and ‘owed’. She keeps quiet, her family does not. A huge red waving red flag that can’t be missed by someone with an understanding of narcissistic personality disorder. As far as Meghan exploring Harry, I don’t buy it. I believe she growing up with a narcissistic father and Harry growing up with a palace full of them share that common understanding of the damaging effects narcissist abuse inflict.

    1. I do not claim, I am. Have you read all the articles? Do you understand what often results in the creation of a narcissist?

    2. Just because her dad could be a narcissist doesn’t mean she can’t be one. Quite the contrary. You’d see more red flags if she didn’t have to be so careful in her position presently. No red flags have been missed here. Read all of the A Very Royal series. Many things were correctly pointed out and expanded on previous to them breaking away.

    3. J

      . Children who grow up with a narcissist parent are guarded and often come across as displaying selfish tendencies.

      Citation, please.

  2. Did you see the Forbes article advocating understanding that Harry’s current choices are motivated by past trauma?

    Ahh, yeah, we got it.
    And we empathize with Harry’s past trauma.

    But is anyone aware that his past trauma is being exploited by someone who is going to cause him further trauma?

    Looking forward to further updates HG!

      1. Kathryn,

        Thank-you for your comment but Meghan, likely being a mid-range narcissist has no insight into what motivates her behaviour. Although, narcissists are very good at honing in on our weaknesses and wounds -so it looks, from our vantage point that it is calculated and targeted. It is completely unconscious on her part.

  3. I think that Megans dad talked a lot about him and what he did and what he was owed. For him to say that Megan was his greatest relationship must have been hurtful to his other children.

    1. Jane

      Yes, it would’ve been to the non narcs, challenge fuel to the narcs plus wounding.

      PN used to say something like that. Loved me but did not love my brother.

      He was incorrect on me and correct on him.

  4. Looking forward to reading this latest instalment HG. It will be very interesting to find out how Meghan’s father fits into the story as well.

    Both Harry and Meghan are the children of divorced parents and dysfunctional immediate families in which their Mums and Dads were very dissimilar. In that respect, they have some things in common.

    1. @WiserNow, spot on! For one to come to the conclusion that she is using Harry because she is a Narcissist doesn’t really understand that people with similar dynamic of childhood dysfunction gravitate towards one another.

      1. J

        That could possibly be true in some cases.

        In the vast majority, Empaths and Narcs are drawn together.

        That’s the way its worked. That it’s always worked.

        Beautiful bit of word salad there…

        Norms and Empaths dont use people.

        So if she is not a narc she cannot use Harry.

        So which is it?


      2. J,
        I agree with you that the childhood conditioning does make those with similar childhood dysfunction gravitate towards each other. I do believe though, that Meghan *is* using Harry for her own personal needs. Whether those needs are fuel or social status or residual benefits.

        To Meghan, what she is doing is unconscious. It’s not love or care or genuine respect for Harry as an autonomous individual.

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  6. Whoop whoop 🙌
    I’m curious regarding the Markle narcissistic family dynamics. If MM is the fallen “Golden Child”, what role is the step sister in now? Has she become the Golden Child because she speaks so highly of Daddy Markle?My guess is that he is a lesser, victim, narc. Did I get close on that one Mr. Tudor?

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