The Empathy Cake
The Empathy Cake is a Logic Bulletin which enables you to understand the difference between
1. Instinctive Emotional Empathy
2. Safeguarding Emotional Empathy
3. Activated Emotional Empathy
4. Minimal Emotional Empathy
5. No Emotional Empathy
Being able to understand these differences will increase your defence against narcissists. It will also enable you to make sense of the behaviour of the narcissist and also non-narcissists.
Detailed scenarios for each layer of The Empathy Cake provide a clear and simple explanation to boost your understanding.
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2 thoughts on “The Empathy Cake”
Hg what if a day or so after the Narc complains and yells that the empath keeps pointing out / implying / the narc likes other women and looks at other women . For example: The empath is using an app of ancestry and telling the narc all about his hundreds of fourth cousins in an area …. his response is uninterested and wants to sleep ….so the empath tells him there are pretty young female cousins he may want to see ? He scoffs , like nothing is good enough or so what. Later the next day the narc brings up the instance of other women because he wants some negative fuel . He yells that he is sick of the empaths attitude and she is “always” talking about other women and then he whines and mimics a nasty witch / bitch voice and repeats his version of the empath telling him about pretty cute fourth cousins in his version . Hg is the narc trying to act like his feelings are hurt or are is he …..what ? (Just wanting negative fuel and for me to say sorry etc ). What else is he gaining by pretending he is so bothered and disgusted by his IPPS mentioning pretty girls. Is his facade threatened …..? That he doesn’t even look at other women or he can’t believe I say this “all the time.”
You are threatening his sense control by implying that he is interested (even though he is but that is not the point) in other people besides you. He gets to decided that, you do not and therefore you are threatening his control. His narcissism activates the response as you have described.