The Sanctuary
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I could NOT believe it. I was absolutely gobsmacked. Seriously?! People post 3 hour videos of hoover sounds as RELAXATION? What?! Lawnmowers too?! It’s called ‘white noise’. Laughing……absolutely hilarious! This world is crazy!
Give me HG’s music, any time.
Dear Mr Tudor,
Your serene and stunning sanctuary coincides exquisitely with the soothing harmonies of David Celeste
Are you expanding your genres?
Thank you kindly for sharing your piece of heaven on earth
Luv Bubbles xx 😘
This has to be Scotland. The mountains remind me of Glen Coe – I would say it is Glen Coe.
Thank you for this, HG. I can’t wait to be able to cross the Channel again and head straight up to Scotland.
Lucky you! I have to cross the Atlantic to get there! 😀
This one was delightful to listen to, and watch. Thank you, HG.
Wonder what a storm / tempest version would be like, should one be created. Laughing, a drone would not survive during such weather, probably get electrocuted by lightning too. Pity, because I imagine it would be stunning.
A love coach for women just followed me on Quora. Ewwww.
Sanctuary? Sanctuary?! OK then yes. Let me the hell in !
Join us TS, in our hot air balloon ride over beautiful scenery and with relaxing music…
Ooh, are we in a balloon? I thought it was a helicopter! Xx
Oh, a helicopter would be noisy and, I think, not so smooth. Of course we could wear a headset with music but then could we talk? And would we see the blades whirring? But then, no shadow of a balloon either so…? However HG is transporting us, it is amazing!
A love coach for women following you? Haha, TS, this made me giggle. Tell us more, what does s/he advocate? More home baked cakes and aphrodisiac dishes to keep your man at home? More love in the face of abuse? French, er I mean sexy, lingerie?
Fiddleress,
I caught me a real fish haha! This guy is an advocate for the Twin Flames Community and has put together a lovely glossy guide to dating online. Pictures and everything!
Oh, my! Twin Flames Community? I sometimes post on Quora, but the French version, so I don’t know that community. But a guy who is a love coach for women about online dating? Sounds like there might be a few red flags fluttering!
You have sanctuary here.
May I bore you with my no-love life, which definitely excludes online dating, or any dating for that matter, haha? Just to keep you up-to-date about the fiddle player, since I was about to visit him the last time I wrote about him.
We had a great time over the two days I spent with him, just chatting and gardening. At some point in the evening I said: “I’ll either go now or I’ll be too tired to drive later on, or I can sleep here as you offered the last time – I don’t mind either way, what do you think?” And I loved his response: “You can sleep here, no problem, but no sex! I’m done with relationships, and not interested in one-night stands.” So I told him I was really glad because I was exactly on the same page there. Friends we are, and very good friends; I’m so happy he said that, it really cleared the air.
Earlier on, I think he gave me an opportunity to say my piece about the time he fled without a word, but it was not the right moment at that point so I eluded the topic. The next day we were talking of other things, but now I know I can broach the subject without any discomfort in the future. He did give me a hint: it had to do with his health and him taking heavy medication at the time, not sure he’d survive, and he simply zoned out at times.
So there it is: I have a real friend, and a male friend, which is precious!
Hope all is good with you TS; I understand that you will be speaking with HG soon: good move, I’m so glad! Xx
Hey Fiddleress,
This really made me smile. You never have to ask me to talk, here for you whenever to talk about whatever x
I’m smiling because it’s such a lovely friendship that the two of you are cautiously nurturing. Respect, it’s a calling card and one the narcissist does not possess. I love that your friend is so up front, he faces things but carefully. He’s looking after himself but also trying to look after you too. That’s exactly as it should be.
His approach is very healthy as is yours. From your side I think the friendship will benefit you in itself but also I think this man will illustrate to you what a healthy relationship should look and feel like. Yes, it’s a friendship and not a romantic relationship but really the same rules apply. It is my hope that once you feel comfortable in that friendship and recognise what a normal relationship should feel like, then you will be further protected going forward. You will recognise what healthy is, the pace that a relationship or friendship takes to develop when it’s genuine and so on.
He sounds like he recognises your Truthseeker trait! The fact that he allowed opportunity for you to ask about his disappearance years ago is a good thing. It’s interesting that the real need for you to know is less important now. Your view is more that that discussion will happen in time but there’s no need to push for it. That’s the difference isn’t it? When we know someone is honest and open to discussion the Truthseeker in us settles down. It’s the narcissist that exaggerates that trait in us because of his evasiveness.
I’m really really happy for you Fiddleress. I think this friendship will be something you grow to really cherish. I see you being like two peas in a pod eventually!
Yes, my consultation, HG is the right person to look at this for me. I’m realistic, not expecting a magic solution, just a different way at looking at things that might help me to see things more in context.
I told my trainer at the gym I was going to consult with a narcissistic psychopath, his face was a picture haha. It was my last session with him, I’ll miss him. He is going off to work with young offenders. He’ll be great at it, he’s one of our kind, I worry that he’ll struggle to switch off from his new job though. These kids very rarely have happy back stories. He’ll carry that with him. I told him a little of what an empath is, why I can feel that he is one. We did that ‘lock on to each other’ thing and the conversation was had at a whole different level. We’ll keep in touch, he’ll need someone to help him reconcile what he takes in. He recognises that part will be tough, he admits to feeling drained when helping people.
So I had the option of a narcy trainer or the gym owner who strangely I think is also one of our kind! Two empaths working in one gym? It’s possible. I’d have said unlikely, but it’s an unusual gym, a real mix of ages, they take on lots of rehabilitation work, people recovering from operations and injury etc. Needless to say I chose the owner / empath. Me not stupid haha! I have my first session the morning of my consultation, I’ll probably still be coasting on endorphins, good, I’ll need to be on my game I think! He’s pretty sharp that HG character or, so I’m told.
I should really behave now shouldn’t I? At least until the consult. Zero teasing, no playful, on it. No problem.
I’ll let you know how it goes! Xx
This is absolutely beautiful and achieve the desired, relaxing results perfectly!
Hello HG Tudor, I’m interested in the co parenting package. Is the information contained in this package universal please, by that I mean any law related matters around parenting plans as they may not be suitable for myself living in Australia?
I’m assuming it’s purely strategy based ?
With thanks
Hello Connie, the material applies to all jurisdictions.
Beautiful <3
Are we in Scotland?
Wow, Hg, this is really impressive! The moving scenery, the hills, valleys, absolutely breath-takingly serene. The music, fab! Yah, I’m gonna enjoy this one……deffo worth a repeat play-through. Thank you, HG! 🙂