Only a Super Empath Can Break a Narcissist
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HG
A truly appreciated and easily understood explanation of this continuing myth as only you could provide. Thank you.
As you point out (and I can attest) – revenge is emotional thinking. Once that is under control one realizes that No Contact IS the revenge.
Revenge is like trying to fill your lungs by breathing into a vacuum.
You are welcome.
It´s of course not about “breaking the narcissist”. Those who know the DSM V (and I´m sure most of us do), can clearly see that NPD is listed as mental illness. No matter how cruel they are, how cold and brutal – eventually: It´s not their fault. So, would you kick someone who sits in a wheelchair? Would you punch somebody who is lying in the bed with flu? No, you wouldn´t, at least not, if you´re an Empath. So what is this all about? SELF DEFENSE! It´s about preventing YOU from breaking down, protecting YOURSELF from the manipulations, the gas lighting, the triangulations, the put-downs, the blame shifting. It´s about not taking the blame, about standing up for yourself, about shielding yourself from breaking down mentally. Wounding the narcissist is a collateral damage. 😉
Sooo – it should maybe read – A narcissist cannot break a Super Empath 😉
Interesting and thought provoking – why did I get the impression a super used tit for tat against them? I cannot recall where this idea came from.
So any defence I have demonstrated is likely to be a product of my contagion and deep sense of justice 🙂
Hi PAWA,
The impression of the super going tit for tat with the narcissist is contained in another article on the Super Empath, but I’m unable to find it right now. I thought it was the article on the Super Empath. In the article HG compares the SE to an apprentice and the narcissist to their master, and on the occasion of the Supernova the apprentice is seen to turn on their master.
Which has just reminded me of the article I was looking for:
https://narcsite.com/2021/08/12/the-empathic-supernova-19/
Hi PAWA, LET has provided the link to the article you may be referring to. HG’s ‘The Super Empath’ article link is…..
https://narcsite.com/2019/08/14/the-super-empath-12/
Aha, I wasn’t having a supernova that last year, I had worked him out! Not the terminology of narcissist, not knowing about that yet, but that he did not have our good in mind, only his own. I had let the scales fall from my eyes with regard to him. He was still getting some fuel, especially around the finances, and the fact that I was still there. It had altered though, and he recognized this, I had gone into wait and see mode, because I wanted him to make the final effort one way or another. I have not had any desire at any point to exact revenge, I just wanted to be free of him if it proved he wasn’t going to shape up. Prove it he did. Good riddance. I do have regrets, that I allowed so much time with him, that I continued to fund him that last year, these are the biggest. Glad for better understanding of what happened, very thankful for that.
I book-marked the thread the last time this was posted. I will read some parts of it and will read the rest soon…..thank you for reposting this HG 🙂