Why did the narcissist choose you?
How did he or she go about deciding that you were the ideal target for him to launch his campaign of seduction upon?
Did you do something to attract the attentions of this dangerous foe?
This direct and comprehensive book will enable you to understand what it is that the varying types of narcissist look for when they are searching for victims. Whether you wish to prevent it happening again or you need to understand why you were chosen, this book will deliver the answers in an uncompromising and straight forward manner.
What are the things that various types of narcissist look for?
How do they go about establishing their targets satisfy those traits?
What are the Special Traits which attract all narcissists?
Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous?
Who does the narcissist go after and why are certain people left alone?
What does the narcissist mean when he or she is looking for green lights?
These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and unsettling look into why the narcissist chooses you.
7 thoughts on “Sitting Target”
My sister had been ensnared—again. Straight from one to another. Everyone sees it and everyone has told her he is bad news, he is a narcissist, etc. etc. She refuses to do the ND (that I purchased for her) because she knows he is a narcissist and doesn’t want to face it.
She said to me, “Just don’t say, “I told you so.” I said, “I would never. You’ll come around when you are ready. But we know, and we’re here.”
I HATE HIM AND IF I SEE HIM IN TOWN I WILL NOT ACKNOWLEDGE HIM IN ANY WAY 🤣
BC30, it is good that you have indicated that you will be there when she is ready. Kudos to you for that 🙂
BC30, I am sorry to read this. I feel the same way about a son in law I have. He is the father to two of my grandchildren so I have to tolerate him. It is horrible to see someone we love being hurt by these people. I hope your sister gets away sooner than later.
Im sorry to hear that.
You gave her the best awnser and she knows that she got your support the day things turns sour.
I noticed that normally, without the honey coated love bombing in any form, I instinctively feel extremely repelled by narcissists or dark personalities in general. It´s the gut feeling, the logic, the inner alarm bells which signalize that this individual is dangerous and bad for you.
We Empaths fall for fake people who in fact do not even exist.
Leela, I think this is why the women are so easy to spot, there is none of that honey coated love-bombing going on, the desire to control is right there.
You could not have said it any better. Word for word exactly how it should be written.