Why the Narcissist Downgrades
“HG, I am decent-looking, have a good job, I am intelligent, caring, fun and interesting, I dress well, I am a dab hand at cooking and nobody has ever complained about my bedroom skills and he has left me for THAT! Why?!”
It is a refrain I have often heard.
Why, when the narcissist could have you, did he go and choose somebody who is clearly inferior to you in so many different ways?
What is so good about her or him?
Where have you gone wrong?
Why on earth has he chosen her over you?
Why has the narcissist downgraded?
This gives you the answer and it will not only help you understand, it will make you feel a whole lot better too.
And people say that ignorance is bliss! LOL.
PS that was a yunk from me…….
HG,
Everything revolves around the Prime Aims. But, on a side note any intimacy you are involved in obviously gives you fuel. I am aware that you also hate closeness from time to time. Putting all that aside, do you actually enjoy the physical act of sex and experimenting, or does it mean nothing and is just purely a means to an end.
Best,
DB
I have explained previously that we have nerve endings and the physical pleasure derived from sex is a residual benefit.
Thanks for that HG.
Best,
DB
I am only going work on a career and a possible foreign diplomatic position for myself from here on out. You can wallow with Kim Kardashian all day long.
Don’t ever proposition me ever nor mention my initials at all ever again. I am not and never will be one of your articles.
Oh, HG! You should never settle. There’s plenty of other narcs out there that would appreciate you and your talents and work!