Sex and the Narcissist
No holds barred and no strings attached
The only unnatural sex act is that which you cannot perform
Read about how the narcissist views and uses sex and how you are central in that
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Hi HG, I’ve finished reading Sitting Target and Sex and the Narcissist (reading Fuel right now)!
What a ride!!!
Before i ask, i have to confess that due to the lack of oxygen in my brain during the lockdown mask mandate, i made an irreparable decision to watch „50 Shades of Shame“ ! Now add that to post-lockdown trauma !
Not that i ever had it, but i think i’ve lost it when he started singing..
You never mentioned that torture in your book HG!
All together, is it a fantasy of a lesser about dreaming being a Greater?
I mean Dakota — snail in headlights. Is it really that quality of fuel that Greaters do digest? I thought they can detect fiction. Her mom would have done a better job, really.
I never was in an intimate relationship with one of your kind and since i never will i can give it away:
Fuelfest Guaranty : Force me to watch that film! I will be begging, crying, hysterically laughing, trying basically everything to make you stop playing it as i would fight an ongoing nausea at the same time. Top it with; you giving me some Edward Cullen stare and throw a Bella irritation in it.
Seriously HG, what needs to happen that your revelations would see the light of cinema??
I can imagine the challenge lies in the reveal of your identity since you would have to control every aspect of the process?
The world need to understand what you’re saying! I want to see their heads spin as they’d watch the curtains fall.
I’m curious, have you thought of it? A multidimensional plot? An actors list? Who would play which cadre, school???
Would it be a series? From historical setting to nowadays?
OH wait!! What if, it would even go to the start of it all ?!!
Article in the Daily Mail, 5th July:
“Time to take a long hard look in the mirror? Narcissistic men are more prone to premature ejaculation and difficulty reaching orgasm, study finds”
Worth a read to get a take on what is referred to as “sexual narcissism” …
My bet is they’re narcissists having sex and apparently the pressure is on!
“If you’re a narcissist when it comes to sex, chances are you’re more likely to suffer some embarrassing issues in the bedroom.”
Dr. Todd Grande (who I’ve listened to occasionally) shares his thoughts in a video. Mine tend to differ from the general gist of the article where researchers expresses confusion about why narcissistic men would have difficulty reaching orgasm. My guess is the ‘intimacy’ factor, which they include as one of the statements in their questionnaire – “Emotional closeness can easily get in the way of sexual pleasure.”
From the article:
“Narcissistic men also showed higher sexualisation overall, as well as a higher ‘autoerotic orientation’ – getting sexual gratification through stimulation of one’s own body.
‘Narcissistic men are strongly self-pleasure driven, deriving sexual satisfaction more from orgasm than relational interactions,’ the authors say in their paper.
‘They are also more prone to rapid ejaculation (presumably early in a sexual relationship) and to difficulty reaching ejaculation (presumably as relationship novelty wanes).”
That last part was interesting about when “relationship novelty wanes”, aka devaluation where intimacy is often withdrawn and sex withheld.
Patrick Bateman is mentioned so I guess they’re on the right track.