Knowing the Narcissist : Letter to the Narcissist No. 128
Dear Father
The irony of it all…
You met someone special and were together nearly thirty years…she was your moral compass and gave you enough love but gave you what for too and took no shit from you and kept you grounded, entertained and present. Beautiful in every way, inside and out.
You lost her..
And then you lost me because I could see through your shit. Only person to do so…
You made your wealth…because of your poisonous mother who pushed you into believing you were special but breaking you down too. You had to prove yourself. What a burden that must of been. Your dad was decent. Actually lovely.
You went dark after mum died and crushed everyone in your wake…no though or care for anyone else….
And then you became lonely because you couldn’t turn back the clock and get back what you once had and now you are gone…
Your money didn’t bring you happiness. A lesson learnt too late.
You thought you were in control when no one has control in actual fact.
Everyone has their vulnerabilities or their blinkers on..no matter who you are.
I always understood you and so did mum.
CA




Whoever wrote this – I feel you. A balanced and wise letter.
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I’m afraid of the moment, when his mother dies (although I don’t like this woman very much). I know, that then all hell will break loose and I know what I will face (mostly – myself).
So live as long as possible, Mrs. Mother, so that I can prepare myself.
Thank you for sharing – I can relate on many levels 🙂