Knowing the Narcissist : Fury
Fury is present in all narcissists.
Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult?
Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered?
Why does he walk off and disappear?
Here is the answer.
By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic.
What is fury? Why is it something beyond anger in a certain group of individuals? Where does this it come from and what is it used for? What ignites it and what is your part in this ignition? What does this ignited fury do and why? Why does it never recede? Ascertain whether people in your life suffer from it and what does it mean. Why does the narcissist cultivate it and how is it used against his or her victims? What can you do about it and its effects? These questions and more are answered in a revealing expose of the fury of the narcissist.
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I am not afraid of your fury, rage and hatred. Your fire warms me.
It’s so easy to provoke it and wait for it to break – now or later. It’s so easy to distance yourself from such a person.
I’m afraid of you, when you’re soft, attentive and wonderful…
Hi Joa,
I love reading your words. Its good to see you back. Your last line is very true.
Of all the things in the world (except death), what hurts the most is deep disappointment in another person.
Thank you Leigh.
JOA,
I agree with you, a very painful truth indeed xx
Hi Joa & Rebecca,
I missed these comments. I agree. Deep disappointment can be devastating. Its why I don’t let people in because then they can’t disappoint me. The wall has even got higher and thicker since learning about narcissism. If I don’t let someone in, then I can’t be disappointed.
I have higher standards now in order to break down that wall. But I also have lower expectations that someone can actually meet those standards. Most people can’t or won’t. That’s how I avoid disappointment now.
Leigh,
Don’t cut yourself off too much, it’s not healthy for you being isolated. Xx You have me here and others on here, who can help you and be there for you. Xx I know it’s hard not to think negatively and to not think people aren’t worth it sometimes, but there are other good people out there. I’m sorry you’re feeling unsafe and vulnerable around people. I try to be more careful myself, slowly getting to know people and not jumping in with all my trust like a kid. Slowly trust, like a flowe in the spring, slowly open. Hope you’re well. I missed commenting back to you and others on here. Glad to say Hi and hope you’re well. Xx
Hi Rebecca,
I’ve always had trust issues. The wall has been up for as long as I can remember. I promise I’m not isolated though. I have my empath daughter and I have a very good friend who are both confirmed empaths by Mr. Tudor. I’m beyond grateful to both of them.
I’ve missed our chats on the blog too. I hope you’re well and enjoyed your holiday.
Hi Leigh,
I’m well and I have a low drama Christmas, thanks to HG’s advice ans guidance. Xx
I’m glad to hear your daughter and friend are there for you. I have a close few friends I can trust around me. I’m taking things day by day and staying determined. I hope you are well and staying strong. Xx I appreciate you and the supportive people here. Xx