Knowing the Narcissist : No Contact
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I went no contact and in the process retrieved the iPhone I had given him. He had removed the SIM card but had not removed the data. I had every text message phone number of every supplier, including his wife! I sent this to everyone:
And to my friends and fellow women who are potential fodder for this sociopathic malignant narcissist, I am not afraid to say stay far away from Cass (Cassafaya/Phillip Wright). This post is not made out of vindictiveness. It is made purely to warn and protect unsuspecting individuals (men and women whom he uses equally) from the emotional turmoil that I experienced as well as several other women. He has no money, no automobile, and by now probably no home. He has NOT toured “all over the world,” and only went to a few countries on another woman’s money. Although he will tell you he is a “star” and everyone wants him and wants to be him
(And I think he actually believes it) he is not. Look him up. Very few downloads of any of his music for years! Nothing new for at least 10 years. Be careful my friends.
And to my bartender friends, he has told me many times that you all have the “F me face” and want to sleep with him. He has no boundaries.
Subsequently he showed up at one of my favorite places where we would sing, with his wife! Apparently to prove his popularity and power. The KJ refused to let him sing and the bartender told them they were not welcome and asked them to leave.
The next day both the FB status changed from “married” to complicated and his wife made several posts about being drawn in by a narcissistic again.
I don’t need to tell you the extent of his lies and deception to me and every woman AND man on his messages. But the one that sickened us all and made this easier was that he was using my apartment and bed for his brothel. Telling women it was his home and promising they would be able to live together there.
I blocked everything. I have cameras at all doors and windows. He made one attempt to break in which was recorded. I unblocked and sent one message “stay out of my yard.” He immediately read it and blocked it. And I immediately deleted 15000 messages and shit down any app he could possibly use to reach me.
I have not heard from him since. It has been two weeks. My question is this, because I notified every supply and fuel provider do you really think I still need to look over my shoulder for his groveling return?
I am very safety conscious. My car is in front of my apartment with a camera on it. I work in a secure building. I do not go out alone.
You are always at risk of a hoover assuming the individual is a narcissist. It is the extent of the risk which varies. In order to advise you properly, more information is required from you to provide you with a full response as there are a variety of observations I have based on what you have done and your circumstances. The appropriate arena for this is the audio consultation and I encourage you to organise such a consultation with me.