Knowing the Narcissist : How To CoParent With a Narcissist
Often viewed as one of the harshest outcomes from an ensnarement with a narcissist is the issue of children and co-parenting with the narcissist. A frequent question that is asked of me by many individuals who find themselves in this predicament, worn down and unsure of how to go about this in an effective manner for both themselves and also their child or children.
The most common reason given to failing to implement total no contact is the issue of shared parenting with a narcissist. The attempt to escape the nightmare of ensnarement is viewed as unachievable and increases the concern, fear and anxiety for the non-narcissist parent in feeling eternally chained.
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HG, thank you for reposting the threads where the Scapegoat / Golden Child comparisons are discussed. It is astounding to understand it all too well. I may even suggest that in some cases, not all cases, the Golden Child may not see (or understand) from the Scapegoat’s perspective because of being & having the status of the Golden Child since the dynamics (roles) were “created” by the parental narcissist(s).
Those “roles” may even extend out throughout the rest of the family, having said that, not necessarily in the ‘eyes’ of all the family as a whole. There may be ‘division’ because of the differentiating perspectives and the fact that the extended family members may not necessarily witness the parental narcissist(s) “treatment” of the Scapegoat / Golden Child and why / how those “roles” come into formation.
Applying the above to, say, William & Harry. Those roles, heir & spare were decided simply by RF birth / law of succession etc. William being a normal, his personality / character would not be impacted and certainly does not behave as a Golden Child may behave (spoilt, entitlement etc).
This is what many people do not ‘see’, they may contribute to Harry’s status as the Scapegoat, and considering all the other factors that you have mentioned in your videos, Harry will always be the Scapegoat, it was his “destiny” from the start. The empath / normal members of the RF may not ‘view’ Harry as the “scapegoat” as such by the label alone yet can observe his behaviours and understand to a degree why he behaves as he does, especially and even more so since he met TOW.
Despite being created as the “scapegoat”, it does not necessarily mean that the person remains as a “scapegoat” for the rest of their life as long as they access, utilise and apply what they have learned about narcissism in order to ‘cleanse’ the ‘conditioning’ and remove that “label” by GOSO and going ANC, or, better still, full NC with those that “persist” in attaching that “label” !