There is just one thing I disagree with: “I will take what I need, and I will give nothing real in return.”
The truth is, as you grow older, disappointment begins to accumulate. Sometimes I feel that, despite everything I have done, I could have done so much more to help others. There is disappointment in the people around you. And in the world as a whole.
Life is so unfair… and so stupidly designed. If someone created this world, forgive me, but they got everything wrong.
At some point, I began to feel that there was far more bad than good in this world. And that leads to despair, to a feeling of helplessness… You no longer dream of changing the world. You accept it as it is, as imperfect and wretched as it is.
And I kept waiting for something… something that would dispel this existential horror and inspire me to face another day. Some kind of miracle.
Something that would make me believe that there is not only darkness in this world, but goodness too. That perhaps goodness can still outweigh the bad. That despite everything, people still strive for something better, something meaningful, something genuinely good. I wanted so desperately to believe that there was still more to this world than suffering, cruelty, and disappointment.
And I found this website.
You often talk about your motives in your various publications… but let us judge by actions.
How many people have you helped!! How many people have you given the closure they could never get from their narcissist… how many wounds have you helped heal.
Paradoxically, it is true.
It was YOU, HG, who made me believe in something good again, and believe in GOODNESS.
Yes, YOU. A narcissistic psychopath.
What you give us is real.
I will never tire of thanking you for being here for us.
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This new series is excellent listening, HG.
Thank you.
Right to the heart…
There is just one thing I disagree with: “I will take what I need, and I will give nothing real in return.”
The truth is, as you grow older, disappointment begins to accumulate. Sometimes I feel that, despite everything I have done, I could have done so much more to help others. There is disappointment in the people around you. And in the world as a whole.
Life is so unfair… and so stupidly designed. If someone created this world, forgive me, but they got everything wrong.
At some point, I began to feel that there was far more bad than good in this world. And that leads to despair, to a feeling of helplessness… You no longer dream of changing the world. You accept it as it is, as imperfect and wretched as it is.
And I kept waiting for something… something that would dispel this existential horror and inspire me to face another day. Some kind of miracle.
Something that would make me believe that there is not only darkness in this world, but goodness too. That perhaps goodness can still outweigh the bad. That despite everything, people still strive for something better, something meaningful, something genuinely good. I wanted so desperately to believe that there was still more to this world than suffering, cruelty, and disappointment.
And I found this website.
You often talk about your motives in your various publications… but let us judge by actions.
How many people have you helped!! How many people have you given the closure they could never get from their narcissist… how many wounds have you helped heal.
Paradoxically, it is true.
It was YOU, HG, who made me believe in something good again, and believe in GOODNESS.
Yes, YOU. A narcissistic psychopath.
What you give us is real.
I will never tire of thanking you for being here for us.