You spend your time searching. Searching for the one who will fulfil that desire of complete happiness, the one who will be your match, the one who accords with being the soulmate, the one who completes you, the ying to your yang, the one who makes everything alright again. The one who will wipe […]

No Good Advice

  Relationship advice. The internet is awash with it. Sites, blogs, question and answer sessions, videos on YouTube there is a plethora of advice about how to deal with the problems which arise in intimate relationships. I decided recently to have a good look through many of these sites and gather together the common complaints […]

Something Does Not Feel Right

  “I am left feeling I am not good enough” “I am always waiting for him to call.” “She never seems to listen to me.” “I feel like I always have to respond straight away.” “I do not feel settled.” “I always feel like I am being scrutinised.” “I feel like I am out of […]

5 Myths About the Narcissist

There is too much incorrect information about narcissism. It is misleading, incomplete and often even dangerous. I  read views propounded about me and my kind, with interest but a weary familiarity with regard to the common errors that will be made. There are some intelligent and well-reasoned observations about what we do and why we […]