This is an important albeit comparatively short article, and you have a role to play in it. This blog has been in existence for over 10 years. Many of you have been involved in this blog for numerous years, reading, commenting, and providing your contributions and for that, I am appreciative. Naturally, the amount […]

  I understand my kind, as I one of them, although I am a narcissistic psychopath, so my outlook is somewhat different from your pure narcissist. Nevertheless, there are plenty of them in my family, I have worked with many, I’ve messed with many, I’ve observed and studied many, which is why I’m able to […]

In order to understand your narcissist opponent (and let’s not avoid recognising the fact that we regard you as our opponent) it is essential that you realise that we adopt two lines of defence. It is imperative that our kingdom remains intact, that our rule over you is not impeded, hindered or diminished in anyway. […]

  Narcissists abhor intimacy. Why is that? It is an instinctive and necessary response. Intimacy creates attachment. As I have explained in Attachment Is The Seat Of Misery we attach our victims to us, but we do not attach to you. If we became attached to our victims we would not thrive and survive because our […]

  The Overwhelming Angel appears as if heaven sent, arriving with apparent kindness, brimming with concern and bursting with cannot-do-enough-to-helpfulness. The Overwhelming Angel is someone who appears to place you at the centre of their concerns, where they are always wanting to assist, that you have everything you need and I just wanted to make […]