The Narcissistic Truths – No. 92


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  1. My mid-ranger told me the other day that he’s tired of apologizing to me. I said he doesn’t need to apologize all the time, especially if he doesn’t mean it. He is always talking about his depression, his pain, his discomfort. My pain doesn’t even warrant an apology, but his requires full attention. I give him that attention. I don’t mind any longer.

    1. Matilda says:

      “I said he doesn’t need to apologize all the time, especially if he doesn’t mean it.”

      That made me laugh out loud, Ptsdafternarcabuse! How apt! πŸ˜€ πŸ˜€

      1. Lol i guess they never do mean it! πŸ˜„

      2. Matilda says:

        Yes, mirroring and twisting the truth comes so naturally to them, you can never be entirely sure if they mean what they say!

  2. davita says:

    It dawns upon my mind and intellect that you are a sociopath, but my heart refuses to believe this.

  3. Gloss says:

    It’s all a phantasm. I think you are who we want you to be- who we need you to be. And, you become that person in our mind’s eye. You are everything we hope for, yet none of these things at all πŸ™ It’s heartbreaking for us, but fuel for you πŸ™

  4. Hypnotised says:

    And You the one who afterwards patch us up to let us heal and do it all over again…
    But the pain is deeper… it’s in You…in me… You are hating us punishing us for this horrible disgusting things she/they have done to You…. If You only knew how much some of us would live to help You to tackle her and bring her down for what she has done. .. and show the world the most successful and amazing man in the world who despite the worst crap did not break himself.

    1. Matilda says:

      That is something I will never understand… how one can take it out on the innocent…

  5. Lisa says:

    Not too sure about this one HG.
    Although the ex IS wounded, and its true he DID stab me a thousand times, Im still left with a thousand scars. A scar can only come from being wounded.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Hi Lisa, it means that we hurt you in lots of different ways but then completely ignore the fact that we have done so and refer to how we are the victim, not you.

      1. Lisa says:

        Yes indeed HG I see. I am glad you can acknowledge the fact that you do wound us however, Im not sure my ex would….unless of course he was hoovering. Thanks heaps. L.

    2. Romeo says:

      That’s because you are still in comfort zone! You didn’t take that powerful painful lesson to push you life to proper direction and move on. You still imagining why can’t he just be nice and have a wonderful life with me just like how it all started . That’s comfort. A narc cannot change! But you can and that’s when you will see that it’s not worth it to get 1 million dollar if you are gonna have a damage of 3 millions afterwords guaranteed

      1. Lisa says:

        Comfort zone Romeo? Comfort zone?? Ohhh I was never in a comfort zone with my ex. It was bad right from the start pretty much. Even the golden period was not gold. More like bronze. Ive been out for quite some time and glad of it. Yes still reflecting the damage, but trying my best to do damage control. Thanks for your feedback.

        1. 1jaded1 says:

          Truth, Lisa. If only I listened to my gut.

  6. Romeo says:

    I like that! at the end of the day narcissist is the loser on long term, because they always escape from the fear on short term and hurt so many people. This is why karma on narcissist is on long term, because its a curse already for not being able to function normally without the fuel. Where as good people also learned the lesson to protect themselves or else misery will come itself at your footstep.

  7. 1jaded1 says:

    No. Someone else (Matrinarc and Auntie + others) wounded you and you stab us in retaliation. We are wounded..or at least I am…by your stabs. I am a person, not a pillow or pin-cushion.

    1. Romeo says:

      Yes you are wounded for short period of time (2-5 years) for not protecting yourself from the evil! The moment you protect you also heal. Where as the narc never heal cuz he doesn’t acknowledge, He is always doing the same cycle and back to zero! His investment doesn’t give long term return ( that’s is the injury for him) the end he doesn’t have the peace and tranquility inside of him and it’s never enough!

      1. 1jaded1 says:

        Over 20 years. No winners here, Romeo.

      2. Willow says:

        Hi! I went back to him twice and that was enough abuse. I figured him out after 4 and a half years. I was addicted to him sexually. He was a lot like a vampire.

        His ex wife thought he was bi polar. I was the only one that discovered that he was a Sociopathic Narcissist. I have some Narcissistic traits because I tested myself. However, I still have empathy and a conscience.

        He taught me to use more logic instead of emotion. I also learned to be stronger and calmer. I ended our cycle going on two years now.

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