The Igniters of Fury – No.11


15 thoughts on “The Igniters of Fury – No.11

  1. Vashti says:

    Agree with this one entirely. Narcs are heavy haters.

  2. Twilight says:

    HG what if the man understood that they were the motivation for this success would it change the way he viewed things and his fury not be ignited? Or is it just the success and the attention that is given to them the reason behind this ignition?

  3. Bri says:

    HG, absolutely YES…!! I can say I saw it at live, when I was happy, when I enjoyed anything, if things went right for me, I can touched with my fingers that fury…it was stronger than ever…
    I’ll never know why then, in that moment, I coudn’t run far away, I was so blind…because somebody who sees a man who loves you burning in fury because you are achieving success, must always see the real thing: that man DOES NOT love you at all.

    1. windstorm2 says:

      Yes Bri. And it’s pathetic. Whenever you achieve something, not only can they not be happy for you, they have to say things like: yes, I’ve always thought about doing that, or I once did (insert something inferior). They are so insecure they are truly incapable of acknowledging someone else’s turn in the spotlight. It is truly sad.

  4. Listful Dahlia says:

    HG, you say you want to find the right woman one day. What kind of woman would that be? Do you imagine a normal, healthy relationship that we might imagine? Or do you imagine a dark relationship where you can do whatever you want to abuse and destroy her but she somehow manages not to fall apart?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      The one who provides me with the potent positive fuel that I require.
      I certainly understand the concept of a healthy relationship and I believe that some adjustments might be made towards that but the core of what I am remains the same.
      I do not imagine a dark relationship. Of course if that is what must happen to attend to my needs, then it must happen, but that is not what I envisage at the commencement of the interaction.

      1. Sniglet says:

        HG, we know your fuel needs to derive from different sources for as along as you live, unless you become an infirm. The chances of you having a healthy relationship is minute. Naturally you would subject your partner to cheating, the trust will be gone, a tainted relationship ensues. You are now an unsatisfactory partner to that beautiful, intelligent woman. If she only knew. Hypothetically.

        Your words: “Of course if that is what must happen to attend to my needs…” You just left a door open for more ignominious behaviour.

        So, are you, the Greater Narcissist, an intelligent man (possibly good looking, or not), incapable of imposing a strong discipline on your thoughts and actions to take control of your mind, and achieve the status of a loving, caring, loyal partner? Are you the victim of a feeble mind?
        What does HG stand for? 🙂

        I’m trying to understand you, not belittle you.

        If you are so frequently in “love” with yourself, you go down the longest road to nowhere.

      2. Snow White says:

        Hello HG!!!
        I do believe you are getting closer.
        I think you have learned so much from your readers.
        I think there will be a way for you to tell “the one” all about you and she will work with you to make it work.
        I don’t know how that will look but I hope there is a plan for it to happen.

        How is your progress coming with the good doctors? Are we going to get an update in a new article? I am always interested in your progress and how things have changed for you.

        1. HG Tudor says:

          Hello SW, the ongoing work with the good doctors will be provided in a two volume series called ‘The Good Doctors’. I have taken the view that it will be easier to follow the thread of my treatment etc in book form rather than periodic articles. There will however be the occasional article still regarding certain elements, such as the pro social aspect, but the bulk of it will be in the book series.

          1. Snow White says:

            Thanks! Looking forward to all your new work coming out.
            That series should be a must for the professionals out there and those going into the field.
            You are an amazing educator.

          2. HG Tudor says:

            Thank you SW.

  5. Jaeger says:

    From the ipps standpoint yes. From the Narc parent standpoint yes and no depending on whether they are competing with us or taking our success for their own. Or if they are needing to degrade you for their own elevation. I guess it’s a different kind of hoover there….just the sucking part. Or as my bff says, that has vacuum to it.

  6. not that I want to ignite any Fury but I am certainly looking forward to achieving some level of success again in life. success is the best revenge. I’m a big believer in that. I just want to finish my healing process and when the time is right go out there and live my life successfully. whatever that might mean for that crazy ex-husband narcissist that I’m leaving in my dust.

  7. strongerwendy says:

    Why can’t we celebrate the success together?

  8. Cc says:

    It’s almost as if you are walking me through my journey like an Angel.

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