Dear Mr Tudor,
It’s been 7 months since he ghosted me with that stare . I’ve spotted him driving his current car on the road as he lives nearby and goes to the local doctor just around the corner from my house.
I would presume his latest victim (a nurse) is still on the scene.
I am very indifferent about him now, but I am prepared.
It’s a really good piccie, coterie flying high in the backround, but especially the “rusted” fuel tank and the vulture sitting on “supreme” not regular …. haha
Its only imminent while the link is there. Once its severed, most are gone. I know of some of his victims and at least from social media, they never get his attention again. But it was always imminent while our dance was going on. I hated it. I would try to move on in my heart and head and like clockwork, after a certain number of days, he was always back. It was awful becuase it always had this feeling that he might not be. There was always this underlying sense that at any moment, he would disappear. There was no solid and stable friendship there at all. I am glad I am at no risk of hoovering ever again. There was always that secret desire, but once it reached some critical point of no return, for both of us, that was truly it. Super Nova mode with a narc can create a no hooover environment.
IF they can find you. They’re typically too lazy to invest that much time. At least for a shelf victim. My no contact is finally rock solid except, of course, the contact in my own brain. But I’m making those thoughts my bitch. They’ll be gone soon enough.
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Dear Mr Tudor,
It’s been 7 months since he ghosted me with that stare . I’ve spotted him driving his current car on the road as he lives nearby and goes to the local doctor just around the corner from my house.
I would presume his latest victim (a nurse) is still on the scene.
I am very indifferent about him now, but I am prepared.
It’s a really good piccie, coterie flying high in the backround, but especially the “rusted” fuel tank and the vulture sitting on “supreme” not regular …. haha
Its only imminent while the link is there. Once its severed, most are gone. I know of some of his victims and at least from social media, they never get his attention again. But it was always imminent while our dance was going on. I hated it. I would try to move on in my heart and head and like clockwork, after a certain number of days, he was always back. It was awful becuase it always had this feeling that he might not be. There was always this underlying sense that at any moment, he would disappear. There was no solid and stable friendship there at all. I am glad I am at no risk of hoovering ever again. There was always that secret desire, but once it reached some critical point of no return, for both of us, that was truly it. Super Nova mode with a narc can create a no hooover environment.
Thank you, Caroline😉
IF they can find you. They’re typically too lazy to invest that much time. At least for a shelf victim. My no contact is finally rock solid except, of course, the contact in my own brain. But I’m making those thoughts my bitch. They’ll be gone soon enough.
Way to go, girl.
Is that a vulture? Uh, not helping, HG. lol