Little Acons – No. 36
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The guise of the caring narc grandparent is another illusion. Grandchildren are a ready supply of cannon fodder for the narc to sneakily and underhandedly manipulate and further manifest their toxic ways. Their entitlement to interfere and decree how the grandchild should behave knows no boundaries. Grannarcs are of course are ‘legends in their own mind’ being the authoritative self proclaimed expert on parenting and everything else for that matter. The Grannarcs undermine the parents and use every opportunity to paint the parents as incompetent. They enmesh themselves in the grandchild’s life also poison the grandchild’s mind with lies about the parents. They don’t accept boundaries or respect the parents rights because they believe they are superior. Grannarcs will designate the various grandchildren to the role of golden child, scapegoat and forgotten child and covertly pit them against each other from the moment of birth. Of course these roles will change if the grandchild should question or defy them. Any grandchild who audaciously points out the grandparent’s blatant hypocrisy will instantly be condemned to the role of scapegoat. The grannarcs will also triangulate everyone connected to each respective grandchild. The grand child will also learn from their narc grandparents how to be manipulative, deceitful, and selfish. The narc grandparent is dangerous and destructive and should never be left unsupervised with any grandchild. Keeping the narc grandparents away will help break the cycle of narc abuse and the emotional damage they wreak. In my view no contact at all is the only solution to keeping the children safe.
He was jealous of my grown daughters (his wouldn’t have anything to do with him for over 35 years) and now my granddaughter. If I loved him I couldn’t have anyone else in my life that might take time from him! He told me this himself.
My mum has been triangulating my kids to reenact the triangulation she had with my brother and i. Her way of being vendictive. Basically saying i havent fully escaped that dynamic but i have bc i dont allow it to rule my life as it once did.
Dear Mr Tudor,
My mum couldn’t care less about her own children, let alone her grandchildren.
😞
Another great meme
Hahaha, so true tho