The issue of our kind impregnating a victim is yet another tool that exists within our manipulative toolkit to enable us to achieve our aims. I daresay some of you may find it abhorrent and reprehensible that such an act as conception and the bringing forth of new life should also fall within our repertoire of machinations. Others of you will not be surprised, long-used to the notion that nothing is off limits to us. Everything is in play. As ever,the issue of impregnation and the forthcoming birth is very much something that is relevant to our kind and as ever, I provide you with the truth of how it is regarded by our kind, no matter how unpalatable it may be.

There are several ways in which the act of conception, pregnancy and the issue of children are used to further our dark agendas.

  1. The Promise

The promise to give you children at the early stage of the relationship is always done with a view to ensuring that you succumb to our seduction. See how committed we are to you? We want to have children with you. You. Nobody else. What other commitment underlines and reinforces the strength of our desire to you? The joining of two people in love and creating new life together is the epitome of commitment. How your eyes fill with joyous tears and that look of spreading delight crosses your face when you realise that this wonderful, brilliant and magnificent person wants to have children with you. Whether it is impregnating you or us bearing your child, this promise is readily wheeled out in order to clinch the deal. What you should also have regard to that expressing a desire to make you pregnant/become pregnant by you is actually all about reinforcing our dominance over you. From the male narcissistic perspective, the act of having you take our seed deep inside of you, subjugated to our desire to create new life underlines our power. You are not only allowing us to enter your most private of places but you are allowing us to deposit our very essence there as well. To us this is the ultimate act of conquest. We have vanquished all resistance and there, deep in your sacred and intimate place we have placed ourselves. From the female perspective, the act of becoming pregnant by you underlines how we have subsumed you into us. We have engulfed you and drawn that which defines you into our very deepest of places. We have similarly conquered you.

Not only is this promise made early in the seduction, it will be made irrespective of existing children we may have and that you may have. In our minds they are all just tests demonstrating our fertility for this most supreme of acts, the union of you and I. If we are considerably younger than you and you are female, aware of the ticking of the biological clock this promise of wanting to impregnate you will be used as a golden carrot to dangle in front of you. You are on the cusp of being barren, sterile years may well beckon and here we are, youthful, virile, fertile ready to not only give you our perfect love but to offer that perfect love by way of impregnating you. It is a powerful and irresistible promise which many find exhilarating and captivating. Add to this mix any existing issues in terms of trying to conceive or give birth and this vulnerability will be exploited even further. We want to give you what you want, only because it will give us what we want.

This promise will be launched at you from early on and will initially seem like a loving and romantic comment to make, but it is one that is borne out of the need to dominate and conquer and is a promise that will be made good for the second reason.

  1. Binding

There is no better way to bind you to us than the issue of children. The creation of children means that you are far less likely (and indeed in many cases unable) to escape us. You want the perfect image of a family and with someone who has arrived with such a glorious love for you, who better than us to have children with? We know that because as an empathic person you will dedicate yourself to their upbringing and therefore allow us reduce our own involvement save when it suits us. As you know, when you need support we are invariably found to be lacking. We choose having children as a means of tying you tight to us, ensuring you will provide plenty of fuel for us and have a huge obstacle in your way when it comes to trying to escape us. We have no desire to have children with you because of anything to do with you. We are using you as an incubator. We are like the insect which arrives and lays its eggs in another host causing them to do all the hard work. Once those eggs hatch you will be consumed, cast aside, just as that insect would with the empty husk of the carrier whose role has been completed. You are an appliance that supplies fuel. You are an appliance which is there to carry our offspring leaving us free to cultivate other fuel sources. You will receive little or no help from us, or be doted on, dependent on whether the pregnancy remains in the golden period. Whichever it is we expect you to bring forth our issue without complication or problem because these children are required for the third and fourth reasons.

  1. Pawns

What better device to use as a means of triangulation than one’s own children? These pawns are used in the ongoing competition with you.

“I love you more than mummy, you know that don’t you?”

“I’m your favourite aren’t I?”

“Let’s not tell daddy about this.”

“Mummy doesn’t really love you, but I do.”

Such utterances are issued in order to ensure that the children understand who is their master and commander. They will be used to provide us with fuel as they find themselves to our manipulations also but more than anything else they are a necessary and brilliant device that is used to triangulate with you.

“I will let you but daddy won’t.”

“Isn’t Mummy grumpy today?”

“Here, take this money but don’t tell your mother.”

“Aren’t you happy you look just like me?”

Your parenting of these children will be questioned. What you once did so well, will become the subject of scrutiny and criticism. Any perceived failure on the part of the advancement of these children – in education, popularity, sport and social competence – will be laid at your door. You have failed them. This heartless and savage criticism, attacking your competency as a parent is a fantastic method of causing you to spill fuel. All the while to the outside world we will appear the doting dad, the marvellous mother, the perfect parent. Little does the façade reveal of the tyrannical reign that emerges behind that closed door. The tears and sobbing never cross the threshold.

  1. Legacy

We wish to live forever. Someone as brilliant as ourselves deserves this and children provide the ideal conduit for securing that legacy. Our magnificence lives on through the accomplishments and achievements of children.

“He gets his brains from me.”

“Yes I was a champion sprinter as well.”

“He has inherited my artistic side.”

“I always knew he would follow me into the profession.”

“It is in the good genes I gave her; I always knew she would be a brilliant swimmer.”

The child never achieves anything. We caused those achievements. The credit will always be hoovered up by us. Sucking the admiration and fuel from onlookers as we grasp the glory and seize it for ourselves. We never give credit to anybody else and we make no adjustment to this selfishness with our children. They are just a further extension of ourselves. We attached you to us as an extension but we actually created these extensions, that is how powerful we consider ourselves to be.

We believe that children are the future. Our future.

27 thoughts on “Impregnate

  1. Amv says:

    It’s supposed to say dotes on the kids, cooks, ect

  2. Amv says:

    What does it say about the narc that so yes on the kids, cooks food shops, goes to every sport event of both kids and never says no to them. Keep in mind the mom does non of this, with the exception of sporting events but on a lesser scale?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      1. Facade maintenance.
      2. Drawing fuel from the children.
      3. Triangulating with mother (see how I am better with the children than you/ see how I do so much for this family/ the kids love me more than you).
      4. Comandeers the achievements of the children at said sporting events for himself.

  3. Sarah says:

    If I wasn’t basically sterile the funny part I actually would worship the ground he walked on if he made another version of himself through me because that would be perfection to me and he would own me forever voluntarily because that’s how it should be

  4. NFL3 says:

    Dear HG,
    Can the accomplishments of their child be fuel for the narcissist? The somatic narc makes a big production of their child’s athletic feats and the accolades and recognition the child receives. There seems to be lots of pressure on this child to succeed as a result.

    1. HG Tudor says:


  5. Bc says:

    HG, what does it mean when the supply has been trying to get pregnant but the exnarc wears protection? Also What does it mean when the ex’s current supply cheated on him twice, she had a year long affair with a girl and when the ex found out he said you can continue to have sex with her just don’t do it in my house. ????????

    Is he really allowing her to continue her lesbian fling and why is it allowable for her to cheat on him?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It means he feels she is trying to control him, hence he resists this.
      He is demonstrating he knows, that he is regaining power by saying he knows but he is permitting her to cheat but he will use this against her in due course.

  6. Firefly says:

    Hi HG,
    This exactly has happened to me. I though left with my baby not long after she was born as I could not deal with his abuse effecting my baby. He was violent towards me when pregnant and emotionally abusive. Now we are going through family court. He says he wants to be involved now and forever. He criticises my parenting all the time. HE wants to co-parent – says he misses the baby and wants to be very involved. I worry for the safety of my child. How can I get him to loose interest and leave? I know this sounds like a terrible thing to ask but I am so worried of his abuse and violence….

    1. HG Tudor says:

      You implement no contact. You fight his application to prevent him having residence or contact. You do not provide fuel during that fight. If his application succeeds in part, you manage the situation in a manner as I have described in other answers to minimise your interaction with him and the provision of fuel. Ultimately this is likely to lead to him losing interest over time – the child is just a conduit to gain fuel from you.

      1. Firefly says:

        Thank you HG.

  7. Ella says:

    My ex narc always released himself in me and when I became pregnant I didn’t tell him right away because it was to be a surprise…. then he cheated again and I broke it off and terminated the pregnancy and then revealed it to him during our blow out. He totally ignored it and focused on how us breaking up and his infidelity was my fault. He never apologized for that either. I’m over it and over him but this article brought back memories

  8. Bibi says:

    This image looks like something out of Ridley Scott’s Alien film. Sometimes I wish I could be a sociopath and not give a shit. Life would be so much easier. It’s not fair. I can’t even light my smelly holiday candle without burning the shit out of my fingers. I am in a crappy mood.

  9. Krista says:

    Why would a mid ranger want to impregnate his mistress and ruin his perfect image?

    1. Krista says:

      I guess your stumped as well 🤣

    2. HG Tudor says:

      He may be of the view he can impregnate her to maintain control over her and maintain the facade, or he may be doing so because she is about to become the IPPS.

  10. Bubbles🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,

    My friend has 5 “fruits of his loin” …. 🍌👶👶👶👶👶

    They all have mental issues… I kid you not!
    He’s like a “pig in mud” regarding their achievements 🐽
    The last one (golden child) keeps going for blood checks to see what’s wrong ..
    Far be it from me to tell her ….. 🙊🙈🙉

    Great article Mr Tudor

  11. MLA - Clarece says:

    Hello HG! I actually found an earlier version of this article and posted this question to you and it’s still in moderation so I thought I’d try again.
    I completely understand why you chose to never have kids and made the decision to have the procedure done when you were much younger.
    At this point in your life now, with all the awareness you’ve gained about yourself through therapy and your life experiences, would it ever appeal to you (had you not had the surgery) to be a donor? You would not ever be an active parent. I was just curious if it would appeal to you that there could be a little human made with half of you that could have a shot at the childhood you never got to have and that your blood line would continue (appealing to your superiority)? And would you be curious to see what traits both physically and emotionally that child would inherit from you?
    Also in reading older comments on a previous posting of this article, you said told one reader you would write an article about you going thru the motions with an IPPS in trying to get pregnant (but knowing you cannot because you’ve been “snipped”) and what that experience was like as far as garnering fuel from them. Any progress on that?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      The occasion referred to with regarding to the conception attempt will most likely be addressed in the Asylum of the Grotesque.
      I have no interest in creating a child purely to allow it an opportunity at a childhood that I did not have.
      I have a mild curiosity with regard to the continuance of a bloodline but I have an alternative and more reliable methodology with regards to the securing of my legacy.

      1. MLA - Clarece says:

        I understand. Thanks HG!

        1. HG Tudor says:

          You are welcome Clarece.

  12. NP says:

    Hmmmm, wonder how this plays when you have two Narcs at each others necks….lol,

    as opposed to to a Narc vs empath…

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  14. Gareth says:

    Hi HG,
    How does this translate to a female narrasist?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Reverse it.

  15. Iris says:

    My second narc insisted that he wanted me to have his baby. I don’t do baby’s and he knew that, but his delusional dream was off course more important to him than my wishes. I just laughed at this ridicules dream as he was in his 60s.

    My last narc had 2 small children who liked me far better than him, because he had no idea how to treat them, care for them, play with them etc. That must have wounded him considerably, right?

    1. HG Tudor says:


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