You have two relationships with our kind.
The Narcissistic Relationship which lasts until you die or we die, meaning you belong to us – this is the one many people are unaware of.
There is also the Formal Relationship, which is the one you are aware of. It might be boyfriend and girlfriend, husband and wife, partners, colleagues, friends, a familial formal relationship, team-mates and so forth. There are many Formal Relationships covering the spheres of romantic, familial, social and work relationships.
How did the Formal Relationship with your narcissist end? If there have been Formal Relationships with more than one narcissist you may choose all applicable answers. If your Formal Relationship with a narcissist has been ended and resurrected many times (which is often the case) again choose all answers which are applicable before you cast your vote.
So, whether the narcissist said nothing to you and the first you knew you had been ‘dumped’ was when he was seen out and about with a new lady, whether it was your mother telling you were now cut off and ostracised from the family or whether you took matters into your own hands and penned a ‘Dear John’ e-mail, pick the applicable options and do expand in the comments on how you felt, why you chose the method you did (if you escaped) and your additional thoughts.
Thank you for participating.