Getting Out

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Realisation has finally arrived that you have been sucked into the nightmare world of the narcissist. No contact is the way forward but have you got what it takes to resist the machinations of the Narcissist as she or he does their utmost to derail your campaign? You need to prepare for no contact and who better than to tell you how to do it than the dark-hearted master narcissist. Invaluable techniques are delivered so you can prepare and maximise your chances of attaining no contact and beating the narcissist.

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8 thoughts on “Getting Out”

  1. Hi HG…I just wanted to say thank you so much for your blog. It has given me sooooo much insight on what I am dealing with. Currently, I’m not sure which stage I’m in…I recently “escaped” my narc, I had suspected he was cheating on me….again…..and so I went through his phone. I was sooooo surprised by what I saw! There were SO many! I was so hurt I just stopped after three and he was also trying to get back with his ex and been sending her the same exact pictures he had sent me to her and the other women! I was so hurt I just broke it off but I didn’t tell him why or how I even knew because to be honest I was too scared too. Well, I got a lot of nasty text from him saying he needed to get his clothes and wanted to leave his car and how awful I was treating him that night then out of nowhere a sweet one telling me what he was doing and to say good night which I didn’t reply to any of them and then there was the nasty one in the morning since I had not replied…and then something a week later..funny video with nothing else which I opened but I didn’t reply b/c I am trying to do as you suggested. So I haven’t heard from him in about two weeks…nothing…usually there is always something…Right now, I feel so empty without him, It feels like someone is literally ripping my heart out. I want to cry but the side that knows will not let me but I can tell I’m close to a break down. I want to ask if you why do you think he has not tried to contact me? Have I been put on ice or discarded?

    1. You are welcome.
      I would need more information to provide an accurate answer but it is either because

      1. You were not the IPPS and were an IPSS and your escape wounded him, but since you are an IPSS he has no pressing need to draw you back in as you are only a small part of his fuel matrix and/or he has already replaced you; or
      2. You were the IPPS and you were close to disengagement anyway, so whilst your escape wounded he has not applied any effort to hoovering you because he has promoted someone else to IPPS instead and is occupied with the new golden period, so you are effectively deleted.

      1. Every single time I see you respond to someone like this, I remember the “cat on the roof” joke, HG. You get straight to it, with the unvarnished truth. I’m afraid I’d be softening every truth with sprinklings of sugar. In my desire to comfort, I’d likely unwittingly send empaths right back into the arms of their narcissists.

        So it’s great that a Greater is in charge here. 🙂

    1. It was for me as well. This was the first one I read. It’s a great one to start with… “Black Flag” is another that is a must.

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