Why does he lash out at you, abuse, assault and insult?

Why do you get ignored and cold-shouldered?

Why does he walk off and disappear?

Here is the answer.

By understanding fury, what causes it and what purpose it serves you will unlock a fundamental element of the narcissistic dynamic.

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3 thoughts on “Fury”

  1. Hello H.G Tudor,
    I have been reading, listening and following your sites for sometime due to my recent turmoil with a narrisist which I believe to be of the mid range group, you have literally taught me everything and this guy hits nearly every trick in the book that you have mentioned. I believe I was an intimate secondary source which he wanted to promote to primary source until I sussed out what he was about. I am now 6 weeks no contact thanks to you.
    One question I have is….
    I’ve been listening to why do we cancel arrangements? On this audio you say they aren’t punctual at all, I had the opposite with my N he was always early and waiting for me, used to message me saying he was going to be early nearly every time we met up, this used to annoy me because I’m not punctual and was the one always running late, he would say I’m a very busy man so don’t leave me waiting, although when I tried to leave he would say I’m not giving him enough of my time. Was this him trying to control?

    1. Thank you for the compliments.

      He used punctuality as a method of control, devaluation and facade management.

      1. That makes sense now.
        Thank you
        Something to make you laugh, my ex Narc has a Hoover fixing business, fits him quite well after the amount of Hoover’s he’s dished out!

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