How The Narcissist Evades Being Questioned
You will have questions for the narcissist. Lots of questions.
They never get answered.
Why?
Why is the narcissist so evasive?
Why do simple questions receive a response as if you have commenced an interrogation?
Why won’t the narcissist give you the answer to a straight forward question?
Why won’t the narcissist answer even when it would be in his best interests to do so?
Why must you get answers from the narcissist?
What happens when you ask a question when painted white?
What happens when you ask a question when painted black?
What happens when you ask a question when you enter Challenge Mode?
What are the ways in which the narcissist evades your questions?
What steps can you take to prevent this problem caused by the narcissists evasiveness?
Sick of the anger, frustration and hurt caused by the evasiveness of the narcissist? Then it is time to get some answers and gain those answers which will actually help you and ensure you move forward, rather than remain stuck.
Avoid the evasion and get THE answers.
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This is my ex husband. To a tee. When we were married, I loved him so much I let a lot of this go. When he started turning in toward himself, I had an affair. (brief, stupid, admitted it later) He lost his ever loving mind. How could you do this to ME? In counseling he refused to make efforts to talk more and “flirt” with me b/c the affair guy did that. My ex divorced me, and in the past eight years has stonewalled me, been nice to me, screamed at me, invited me back into his life, and last time, dumped me for a married woman.. I am in EMDR therapy trying to be okay with no contact since we have a 13 year old son. This is hard! But the more I learn, the more I realize my ex is a covert narcissist.
Hi HG,
How can one expect the narcissit to act or react towards being threatened or intimidated after he refuses to answer for his behaviour or acknowledge his neglect in for instance paying back money? Can they be strongarmed into paying it back? What can one expect going down that path from a lesser or mid range.
Cheers!
Your insight and answers have been the missing ingredient in my ability to GOSO my emotional thinking gains less power daily. Thank you again.
1. You have provided Challenge Fuel, expect some form of manipulation with regard to quashing your perceived rebellion against his control.
2. No, you cannot guarantee repayment by asking. Read ‘How To Make A Request of a Narcissist’. If you need further assistance consult with me.
You must have lived in my home and I just didn’t notice. To be honest I just quit talking after awhile. It was always futile and I got worn out leading to collapse. I’m really actually happy most of the time now.