Silent Night



Silent night, frozen out night,

You’re not calm, feeling shite,

He’s gone missing, leaving you riled

Left alone, bereft and reviled

Should you call the police?

When will this behaviour cease?

Silent night, absent night,

‘Phone not answered, it’s not right,

Left you crying tears on your face,

You’ll keep searching, it’s part of the chase

Taking apart your self-worth

As he gives you a wide berth

Silent night, lonely night,

He’s disappeared from your sight,

How is this meant to be love?

This time you’ve had enough

Change the locks, end the contract

It’s time for no contact

14 thoughts on “Silent Night

  1. Claire says:

    It rocks👍🏻👏!
    That stanza is truly aspirational:
    “It’s time for no contact“ because my ex Narc loves Christmas hoovering.
    Although I keep my No contact regime , nothing is certain when a narcissist is involved.
    Thank you, HG for reminder!

  2. lisk says:

    I sang this all the way through. And then again.

    Thanks, Old Saint Narc!

    1. Violetta says:

      Lisk: Eye Sea watt ewe deed

  3. SMH says:


  4. Dolores Haze says:

    I commented today on of those merry-go-lucky pre-Xmas posts on social media showing an elderly couple where the old lady was quoted saying how her husband is always following her around, never leaving her alone even for a moment, if she goes upstairs there he is checking what she’s doing there, coming up to check what she’s watching on TV, and always touching her and holding her hand in the subway “to make sure I know he’s there”. Everyone was ooh-ing and aah-ing about real love and “relationship goals”, and I was like: it’s a typical narcissistic-empathic relationship with a clear need for control and poor personal boundaries recognition aka Hollywood version of “relationship goals”. Of course, a shitstorm followed of “how dare you”, “insulting true love” and how “ignorant” and “privileged” I am. 😂🤣 It amused me. I’m definitely privileged to know the true meaning of relationship dynamics thanks to you, HG; and definitely not ignorant anymore.

    1. BL says:

      I saw that too and immediately thought the same thing! I wasn’t sure if I was jaded or just smarter than everyone else with their “relationship goals”.

      1. Dolores Haze says:

        Just FYI, I deleted that comment of mine with reactions before posting about it here, for the sake of anonymity.

        1. BL says:

          No worries, Dolores. By the time I saw the original post you mentioned, there were thousands of comments on it. I only scrolled the initial 10 or so to see what the general consensus was on the relationship. I didn’t see or look for your response. 💗

    2. NarcAngel says:

      It’s funny how some choose to accept a smothering control freak as the standard for love. I saw a meme that sums up Facebook for me:

      “Being popular on Facebook is like sitting at the cool table in the cafeteria of a mental hospital”

      1. Violetta says:

        That pretty much sums up Jr high and high school.

  5. Violetta says:


    You RAWK.

    1. HG Tudor says:


  6. cogra002 says:

    Pretty darn good job on this one HG 👍🎄🎅

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Agreed. Thank you.

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