Danger : 50 Things You Should Not Do With A Narcissist

Your guide through the narcissistic minefield

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Your guide through the narcissistic minefield

28 thoughts on “Danger : 50 Things You Should Not Do With A Narcissist

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  2. kel says:

    #1 Narcissist’s are a waste of time. I went out to dinner with my narcissist boss when I first came to know him. We were going to discuss if we would have a relationship. After dinner, when we were leaving, he asked what I thought of the night. Buzzed from the wine, I said it was a complete waste of time. I should’ve listened to myself. It was nine years later before I was rid of him.

  3. lidija87 says:

    #1 is don’t have children with a narcissist. The worst out2.

  4. Lorelei says:

    Would sleeping with them count as a “not to do!” ???

    1. HG Tudor says:

      It would.

      1. Lorelei says:

        I kinda thought so!!

    2. Witch says:

      Haha Lorelei take a cold shower

      HG is the “demon” on the cover you?

      1. HG Tudor says:

        Naturally. I am everywhere.

        1. Witch says:

          So you do have thick eyebrows 😆

          1. HG Tudor says:

            No, I do not.

          2. Witch says:

            Erm… I mean the “demon” in the photo has thick eyebrows so???

          3. HG Tudor says:

            That is not me, obviously.

          4. Witch says:


          5. Violetta says:

            Witch: I don’t think red is one of his favorite colors.

          6. Witch says:

            If there is some kind of subtextual meaning behind this, I am slow and I don’t get it.

            Red is one of my favourite colours and black

          7. Witch says:

            Wait! Were you being sarcastic because of the red shorts?
            Now I feel exposed and disgusted with myself

          8. Violetta says:

            Witch: The illustration is red. K found an article in which HG had objections to just about every color but black and white.

            (Of course, there are the tangerine board shorts in the gravatar.)

          9. Witch says:

            Oh right 😆 I get it
            I like this illustration because I’m a sad goth

          10. Violetta says:

            Nothing wrong with Goths. I think I’m going as Lydia Deetz next Halloween. Previous costumes have included Frau Blucher and Elmyra Duff, both of which involved toy animal abuse.

          11. Witch says:

            I love it, great ideas.
            I don’t even get dressed up for Halloween because I’m lazy and I can’t be bothered to spend money on an outfit I’m only going to wear once but I like to see other people’s ideas. I saw someone online dressed up as a sanitary pad for Halloween, I was thrilled!
            I wonder if HG drops the facade for Halloween and goes as himself 😆

          12. HG Tudor says:

            Very funny.

          13. Kim e says:

            K. I am amazed every time you find an old post or reply. I am lucky if I can find what I posted 10 minutes ago. Bravo❤️😀🎉

          14. K says:

            Thank you Kim e!
            When I first discovered narcsite, I spent a lot of time in the archives and the articles are unforgettable.

          15. Violetta says:

            Witch: why would you spend a lot of money? At least 85% of everything I do is already in my closet. The rest is cut and pastes from thrift shops.

          16. Witch says:

            That still sounds like a lot of effort to me.
            Maybe I’ll try it one day

    3. FoolMe1Time says:

      You’re kidding right?! Smh

  5. Cloudy says:


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