Quiz : Match the Manipulation


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Are you able to match the manipulation to the relevant type of narcissist?

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Welcome to  Match the Manipulation

Can you match the type of manipulation to the sub school of narcissist (sometimes the cadre too)?

The maximum score is 100. The answers score between 0-5 per question.

Thank you for participating. Feel free to share your score in the comments section.


Excessive flattering comments towards the victim.


Absent Silent Treatment


Threatening to commit suicide.


Triangulation with a piece of expensive technology.


Sustained punching and kicking in front of other people.


Sustained sexual texting, with requests for nudes.


Present Silent Treatment


Future Faking with regard to an expensive foreign holiday.


Threat of "You have no idea who you are dealing with." made in a telephone call to the victim.


Triangulating Belittlement by saying at home to the victim "Blue is not really your colour."


Spitting at the victim in private.


Projection by telling the victim that they are mentally unwell and require medical help as a priority which the narcissist will organise.


Begging the victim not to leave because it will break the narcissist.


False Contrition for having slapped the victim and promising to change his ways.


Sleeping with the victim´s sister, completely unknown to the Intimate Partner Primary Source.


Impregnating the victim (or becoming pregnant by the victim ) within two months of meeting the victim


Using a Fake Illness to garner sympathy from the victim


Borrowing $ 10 000 and Future Faking by promising repayment within 6 months.


Dressing down a waitress in front of gathered family.


Pushing and shoving the victim at home.

14 thoughts on “Quiz : Match the Manipulation

  1. Cristina Manuel says:


  2. Violetta says:


  3. Deborah Redding says:

    You speak so much truth and I hate you for it.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Fine by me.

  4. Bubbles 🍾 says:

    Dear Mr Tudor,
    Bloody hell !
    First pop, I just scored 64%
    I just stunned myself that I actually know some stuff……finally 🤣
    Luv Bubbles xx 😘

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Of course you know “some stuff” you read my work.

      1. Bubbles 🍾 says:

        Dear Mr Tudor,
        Yeah but, reading it and it actually ‘ sinking’ in are two completely different things 😂
        It’s my best score yet, I is happy happy
        Conga line partaaay time 🎉
        Luv Bubbles xx 😘

  5. lickemtomorrow says:

    56% – so ‘could do better’

    1. lickemtomorrow says:

      59% – ‘needs to try harder’

  6. Eternity says:

    55%. I guess I passed, but I don’t understand this A/B Narcissist etc . What does that mean?

    1. HG Tudor says:

      See Understanding the Fuel Matrix.

    2. Eternity says:

      Thanks so much HG! I will do that.

  7. Fiddleress says:

    65% first time, 68% second time.
    Better scores than with the previous quizz on the topic, so will keep on learning!

  8. Gina says:


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