10 Ways You Threaten The Narcissist´s Control



Gaining understanding about the narcissist is part of achieving freedom.

Narcissist´s need control and fuel and it is near constant. HG Tudor explains to you ten common ways in which you threaten our control of you, although you may not actually realise that the items listed are threats to control.

Hg Tudor also places these threats into the context of how the narcissist will respond when these threats manifest during seduction and during devaluation, showing how different responses arise to increase your understanding.

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8 thoughts on “10 Ways You Threaten The Narcissist´s Control

  1. Witch says:

    This was useful in understanding why my mother used to call me several times a day. I guess I was threatening her control by existing beyond her

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Good to see.

      1. Witch says:

        My sister filled me in with some tea about how my mum recently butchered the shared hedge, so that there’s barely any leaves on it and the neighbour came out to fight her and asked her why she hasn’t touched any of her other hedges (we know why)
        But my mum thinks she’s in right as usual and now she’s telling everyone about hedgegate lol!!!

  2. CatchMeIfYouCan says:

    Interesting information. H.G., although you discuss the primal wounding at the start of this audio, you relate the threats to control. Is control not secondary to the actual or perceived wounding? If I understand correctly, narcissism is the protection of a vulnerable sense of self and control is one method of preserving or regaining self. Using what you term fuel to fill up the emptiness within the self. Just a thought.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      See The 3 InteractionsWith the Narcissist

  3. K says:

    This is phenomenal AND unbelievable. The difference in perspectives is amazing and, honestly, after listening to this, I feel like I have the better part of the deal in this dynamic and it also explains why I have been repeatedly impaled by The Devil’s Pitchfork in the past.

    1. HG Tudor says:

      Thank you K.

      1. K says:

        My pleasure HG.
        I am going to check out The Treasure Trove for more goodies.

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