What You Need To Know, Not What You Want To Hear
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Leigh
HG is really nice to talk with.I at the time had not prepared my questions properly and was babbling on a bit but HG was so nice and soothing actually.I hope that sounds ok HG .😊
I had one audio consult currently getting email consults now to deal with stuff.
I am definitely going for a no contact audio though and going to make sure I am prepared not waffling on this time 😊
Kiki
Hi Kiki, it’s difficult for me to talk to people. I’m a little shy. I always feel like I’m going to say something wrong. I’m sure Mr. Tudor is very courteous. It’s more about me.
Hi Leigh you do what is best and most comfortable for you
.HG is actually quite humorous also .I remember being surprised that I was laughing .It was a nice surprise.If you ever feel the urge to do an audio in future it will be fine .
Kiki xx
HELP!! There was a recent article and HG commented something about Carriers and Martyrs and how one soldiers on quietly and the other seeks to please the N–outward and inward I think he said. Where is the article?? Which one is it? TIA!
Bump. Same.
https://narcsite.com/2021/01/19/50306/
My pleasure BC30!
Here it is!
https://narcsite.com/2021/01/19/50306/
Ha! I knew you could help!
We need K’s searching skills!
Thank you Leigh!
It’s like treasure hunting.
You found it first; you seem to be really good at searching our posts!
BC30
K is wonder woman!
No, make that magic woman!!
Thank you Z – zwartbolleke! The Magic is in the fingers!
Thank you BC30
The main reason I remembered it, was because I am a Carrier.
Leigh
This is another good one!
https://narcsite.com/2016/06/15/a-prosperous-cheat/
Thanks for sharing! I’d not seen this one. The comments are a bit different.
Vintage narcsite is the bomb BC30! I love the old threads.
K, thank you for this! There’s a list of other articles in the comments too that I hadn’t read. I I had read this particular article before but not his exact post. I remember reading the article because I remember thinking that I would sometimes cheat in Monopoly also. Didn’t we all though?!?!
Leigh
Hahahahaha…I was always the Banker and I would slip myself extra dough whenever possible.
Ha! That’s fantastic!
“A prosperous cheat”
(What follows is an expression of astonishment in my own language which I cannot translate *nou nou*) That is roguish (correct translation? Had to search for it).
K, I need help. Where do I find info on the 5 arenas of engagement? I’ve been searching and can’t find anything. 😞
Leigh
The 5 Arenas are located in this article. Sorry it took so long to get back to you, I am catching up!
https://narcsite.com/2021/01/09/the-spheres-of-influence-what-triggers-a-hoover-by-a-narcissist/
K, this article is about the 6 spheres of influence. Mr. Tudor sometimes talks about the 5 arenas of engagement. I guess I’m a bit confused. Are they the same thing?
No, hence why they have different names and there are 6 of one and only 5 of the other!
Mr. Tudor, can you direct me to where you describe the 5 arenas of engagement, please?
You need to organise a consultation.
Leigh
I think these are correct!
https://narcsite.com/2018/08/16/poll-what-are-the-hardest-parts-of-trying-to-implement-no-contact/
Thank you K! That helps.
Mr. Tudor, the thought of talking to you one on one gives me anxiety still. I’m a scaredy cat and not ready for that yet.
I can certainly email you though. Would I just pay for the email consultation and ask for the definitions of the 5 arenas of engagement?
That can be done, yes.
Mr. Tudor, I would also be happy to purchase a book or a logic bulletin. I have several already and don’t see it mentioned in any of the one I already own. Unless i missed it. Do you speak about it in any of your books or logic bulletins?
Hello Leigh, use this https://gum.co/pSpqz
My pleasure Leigh!
HG, this is a brilliant video (you knew that anyway). Bravo. It is one that can be put in the same league as: (in my opinion) –
This Mindset Equals Victory
How Much Narc Knowledge Should I Obtain
There are many, many others…….
HG, you are doing some REALLY fabulous videos and they cannot be measured against any other educational resources on narcissism and how people like me can achieve ‘freedom’ from our heightened Emotional Thinking and increased Logical Thinking. Yes, you are showing how we ‘victims’ of narcissism can ‘Beat The Narcissist’ to the point where we can understand how we are affected.
Yet, at times, admittedly, the Emotional Thinking can ‘rise’ via ‘triggers’ by what we see on the internet and also on KTN site. At the same time, the Logical Thinking we have been ‘taught’ can also be ‘brushed aside’, simply because of our empathic nature – of which – is NOTHING to be ‘ashamed’ of, also should not be ‘made to feel guilty of’, should we ‘see or feel’ something that we may ‘see’ in any place.
I envy you, HG, for your being able to ‘shut off’ the very ’emotions’ that are the very complex and painful things to feel at times. I know you understand how it impacts the individuals and how difficult it can be at times to simply ‘flick’ that switch off and on. At the same time, I don’t envy you – because, I know, now, how it can be done – to ‘flick’ that switch on and off because I can do that myself, at times. Is it any wonder why we do it? No.
I am behind you all the way. To get those ignorants to be forced to listen – whether it is rammed down their throats or not. They need to know. They need to listen. And learn.
AND. To re-write the DSM lists.
I’ll say it now, HG, I love you. For what you have done for me. And for what you are doing for the sake of humanity.
You are welcome.
🙂